42San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
I am involved in two polyamorous relationships with two incredible men, CaliforniaTee and JohnCarl2012). I am a worker and a healer in the realm of sacred sexuality and am fascinated with opportunities to enrich my soul. I enjoy any opportunity to discuss philosophy, politics, healing - you name it! The deeper the better, I am almost completely incapable of keeping any kind of communication on a surface level.
What I’m doing with my life
Healing the world with love, connecting with others, walking my path as I see it laid out before me.
I’m really good at
Listening, talking, designing, linear thinking, non-linear thinking, healing, loving, finding ways to connect to others and self.
The first things people usually notice about me
My warmth and kindness, followed by my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read. I was raised on sci-fi (Star Trek, Star Wars, Robert A. Heinlein, Orson Scott Card), Anne Rice, Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, Piers Anthony, stuff like that. I got really into Reinaldo Arenas for a while. I'm reading Confessions of an Economic Hitman now, before that I read Reading Lolita in Tehran, A Whole New Mind and Tales of the City.

Music: The Misfits, The Smiths, The Cure, Beastie Boys, Pharcyde, Jamiroquai, WAR, Curtis Mayfield, The Doors, The Doobie Brothers, The Grateful Dead, Sergio Mendez, Marvin Gaye, Leonard Cohen, The Ramones, The Clash, Adam Ant, Pink Floyd, Enanitos Verdes, Jackie Green, Scissor Sisters, Ringside...

I haven't had tv since I've been in the city and the break from it is actually really nice. But thanks to the internet, I still manage to catch Rachel Maddow everyday and Democracy Now pretty often.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
self-analysis and my place in this life...
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends or in relaxing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm looking for someone who I'm interested in getting to know over a long-ish period of time, and who is interested in getting to know me. I'm not really looking for casual, just want to find someone who appreciates me and who I appreciate. Someone who sees all the best things about me and lets me shine, and maybe sees the worst things about me too and still adores me.
You should message me if
you are interested in having conversations that can go a little deeper. I'm a thinker, a talker and a listener, so if you also fit that description we would probably have a great time.

I generally tend to date men of color and men who were born in the 70's, but I'm open to all men.
The two of us