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My self-summary
I am nice and pretty chill. I stay busy, but down to earth and a good friend. I am shy at first, but once you get to know me I am the opposite.

Professionally: I am very driven and have accomplished all of the goals I set out for myself, but that stuff is boring so moving on....

Personally: In essence, I just like good entertainment, whatever that may be. My daily goal is to have a gut wrenching laugh, the kind that makes my abs hurt.
I LOVE to travel, see new cultures, people, food, accents, different way of living... I love it!

Chivalry is important to me .
I want someone that cares about who I am as a person and interested enough to ask about what I do and what I like because they're interested and not because its a formality.

I am not looking for a type of man, I am looking for a type of love- unconditional. I do not discriminate based on race/ethnicity, income. I discriminate on ambition. Ambition to be happy not to make money. Happiness is what makes life worth living-so to me, it is life.

If I had to use 4 words to describe me:
Complexity (In a good way)

I believe...
I believe the key to a flawless woman is inner confidence.
I believe if a Man can't love you at your worse he doesn't deserve your best
I believe love starts when the questions die down

I believe in honesty. I am honest to a fault sometimes. Please, don't hold it against me. lol
What I’m doing with my life
I am a student in a Doctoral program.
I’m really good at
Science & Health
Being goofy
The first things people usually notice about me
I am not sure, you have to ask them :-)

Possibly the way I walk, I guess its like a strut, like I'm marching the runway or something, but it really depends on my mood though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
T.V.:- I like reality T.V, Grey's Anatomy, Private practice & Scandal, all dance shows especially So You Think You Can Dance.
Fav. Food:- Nigerian, Soul food, Italian, Mexican, Thai, Middle Eastern, Mediterranean
Music:- Old school R&B, Soulful music, most Pop/Hip Hop, Love songs - In essence, I love music with meaningful lyrics sung with a soulful voice
Movies:- Men of Honor, Remember the Titans, The Guardian, Coming to America, Cool Runnings, Classic Disney Movies including but not limited to Lion King, Aladdin, Mulan, Little Mermaid, The Goofy Movie ...there are some other ones I do not remember right now
Six things I could never do without
The Trinity (God, Jesus, Holy Spirit)
Bleach, I'm a little bit of a germaphobe
Ice Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
School & Life in general
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling out, trying to relax, perhaps sitting with a glass of wine or red stripe and catching up on my shows that I missed during the week.
Or going out with friends. (In essence, trying to forget about school for the night.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This internet thing is very new and a little odd for me.
I have a very hard time talking about myself, but you can ask me anything ;-) I feel a little awkward talking through the computer; I do so much better in person, because I am a girl that does a lot of non-verbal communication.<---Not suppose to be suggestive; I just listen more than I talk in conversations usually.
Plus, I am terribly un-photogenic! (It's true)

I am attracted to complex layers.

One of my favorite things to do is just to spend time with people (primarily of the opposite sex). I do not really like watching movies when I am trying to get to know people because it takes my attention away from them.
You should message me if
You want to get to know me.
You know I am not here to have sex with you.

If you are an artist of any kind; if you create anything from scratch where it did not exist before: dancer, painter, writer, singer, lyricist, musician, poet, sculptor, choreographer...etc
I love artists, I have such a soft spot for them ;-)

If you don't mind taking it start I am looking for friendships, we'll see where it leads..

Chivalry is important to me. I am old school. I do not appreciate guys who have no concept of what it means to make a woman feel your interested in her as a person, not sex.
The two of us