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My self-summary
I'm not an airhead, merely desperate for an anagram... I'm Melissa :)

Writing this to appear as engaging and lovely as I hope I actually am will probably take some time, so in the meantime feel free to peruse the excellently-written profile of my girlfriend, Bread_Catkin . She and I are in a poly relationship with a guy (who has too much self respect or something to be in OKC :P), and though until now (about 18 months) we've been a closed triad living together, we're starting to explore being with other people too, as a group together.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, spending a lot of time thinking about this very question. I part-manage a cafe, but I'm anxious about being dependent on my boyfriend and girlfriend for survival (though I trust we're not going anywhere any time soon), so considering ways to ameliorate that, I suppose.
Other than that, doing my best to turn the lemons life throws into lemonade. Because that's much nicer.
I’m really good at
Thinking my shower-singing voice is amazing. I can also toast toast to an amazing level of perfect toastiness.
Also, skiing without falling over (which loads of people can do, but I've only recently mastered the art).
The first things people usually notice about me
They can probably hear me long before I'm seen, but you might also notice I'm pretty clumsy, so don't let me carry your drink.
Six things I could never do without
I don't think mentioning parts of my body or air and stuff should count, because we all need those, so...

1)Batteries ;)
2)Spare socks. One can never have enough socks.
3)Salt and pepper
4)A phone (not necessarily mine, just a means to talk to people)
5)The sea - even though I hardly live right by it
6)A good friend of mine called MaryJ, whom I see fairly often and wouldn't be without...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Feminism - the continuing need for it.
Sex - because let's be honest who doesn't?
Laundry - and how I manage to get my partners to do it for me ;)
The last place I might have left my phone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Staying in with friends being tipsy and playing stupid games, or out with friends, (and playing stupid games); or maybe trying something indulgent and sexy in the bedroom ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private parts of me have piercings.
I work at a coffee shop, but I don't really like coffee.
You should message me if
You're into women (obviously), though whether as exciting and new something to try, for short- or long-term funtimes, or just to be friends, all is fine.

You understand and accept polyamory, and appreciate that I/we are only exploring the possibility of being open with another person or other people, right now - and you don't mind that I'm happily and firmly committed to other people.

You're not thinking of sending me an entirely generic message that doesn't take into account at least something on my profile.

You're articulate, kind, and cute ;)
The two of us