Writing this to appear as engaging and lovely as I hope I actually am will probably take some time, so in the meantime feel free to peruse the excellently-written profile of my girlfriend, Bread_Catkin . She and I are in a poly relationship with a guy (who has too much self respect or something to be in OKC :P), and though until now (about 18 months) we've been a closed triad living together, we're starting to explore being with other people too, as a group together.
Other than that, doing my best to turn the lemons life throws into lemonade. Because that's much nicer.
Also, skiing without falling over (which loads of people can do, but I've only recently mastered the art).
2)Spare socks. One can never have enough socks.
3)Salt and pepper
4)A phone (not necessarily mine, just a means to talk to people)
5)The sea - even though I hardly live right by it
6)A good friend of mine called MaryJ, whom I see fairly often and wouldn't be without...
Sex - because let's be honest who doesn't?
Laundry - and how I manage to get my partners to do it for me ;)
The last place I might have left my phone.
I work at a coffee shop, but I don't really like coffee.
You understand and accept polyamory, and appreciate that I/we are only exploring the possibility of being open with another person or other people, right now - and you don't mind that I'm happily and firmly committed to other people.
You're not thinking of sending me an entirely generic message that doesn't take into account at least something on my profile.
You're articulate, kind, and cute ;)