34Boise, United States
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My self-summary
It is high time I updated this! Many things about me have changed. I still live in Idaho. I'm always looking to meet new friends! I love people and greatly enjoy spending time with them. I believe there is much to be gained by exposing myself to as many different types of people and perspectives as possible. I'm married to an amazing man and we are open to polyamory though it's just been the two of us since we got together. I am open to dates or hook-ups together with my husband or on my own. I am an ENFP personality type. I like to swim, think, camp, ride horses, read, write, draw, listen to music, dance, see plays/concerts/movies, travel, cook, garden, etc. I especially love to read fantasy, but I am also fond of general fiction, biographies, mystery, historical fiction, graphic novels, spiritual material and just about anything else. I would love to be a librarian. I'm a very intuitive, empathic person. I make friends easily and therefore have many of them. I only have a handful of best friends, though. There is so much more to know about me, but you can just message me to find out!
What I’m doing with my life
I do volunteer work and also work captioning phone calls for people who are hearing impaired. I try to be as spontaneous and adventurous as I can. My personal relationships and spirituality are foremost in my life and always will be. I'm trying to travel more and would dearly love to see a lot more of the world. :)
I’m really good at
Conversation, loving, acting, dance, reading, writing, role play (but not just the kinky type), sex, cooking, language, humor, laughing, being spontaneous, flirting, being open-minded, generosity...um, lots of things. I have many flaws as well, don't think I'm conceited! XD
The first things people usually notice about me
Most likely my hair/beard, maybe...my eyes or my smile? *shrugs* If they're a more perceptive and less superficial person, they'd notice my vivacity, insight, or compassion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This list is going to be LONG. Please don't feel obligated to read the entire thing.
Books) God in Flight by Laura Argiri, Mists of Avalon Series by Marion Zimmer Bradley, Mode Series by Piers Anthony, Discworld Series by Terry Pratchett, Belgariad/Mallorean and Elenium/[[Tamuli] by David Eddings, Oz Series by L. Frank Baum, Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass by Lewis Carroll, The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis. Naoko Takeuchi's work and many other manga. The Little House series by Laura Ingalls Wilder, the Anne of Green Gables series by Lucy Maud Mongtgomery, Amy Tan, Fannie Flagg, The Cat Who series by Lilian Jackson Braun, the Miss Marple Series by Agatha Christie. Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert, Surfing the Himalayas by Frederick Lenz, Neil Gaiman, Ted Naifeh, The Giver by Lois Lowry, Uglies series by Scott Westerfeld, Matched series by Ally Condie, Harry Potter series by J. K. Rowling. I have way too many favourite books to list all of them here.
Movies) any Hayao Miyazaki films, especially Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away and Kiki's Delivery Service (you an assume I prefer the original Japanese versions of any anime, not the American adaptations), Paprika, Perfect Blue, many other animated films. Jim Henson films. I love 80's movies, musicals, classics, period pieces, fantasy epics, surrealism, drama, comedy and the slightest dash of action, suspense and horror.
Shows) Keeping up Appearances, Are You Being Served, Grace and Favour, The Vicar of Dibley, Absolutely Fabulous, French and Saunders, Jam and Jerusalem, Gilmore Girls, That 70's Show, American Horror Story, Downton Abbey, Once Upon a Time, Supernatural, Frasier, The Nanny, Roseanne, Golden Girls, Facts of Life, Maude, I Love Lucy, Bewitched, Sailor Moon (along with many other anime series) and many more.
Music) Lorde, Lana del Ray, Emeli Sande, She Wants Revenge, V.V. Brown, The Asteroids Galaxy Tour, Foster the People, Christina Perri, Paramore, Katy Perry, Leona Lewis, Adele, Sara Bareilles, La Roux, Emmy Rossum, Plumb, Idina Menzel, Kristin Chenoweth, t.A.t.U, Kelly Clarkson and Pink. Third Eye Blind, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Jimmy Eats World, Blink 182, Barenaked Ladies, Ace of Base, the Cranberries, Sarah Brightman, Sixpence None the Richer, Alanis Morissette, Paula Cole, Tracy Chapman and Natalie Imbruglia. Cyndi Lauper, Pat Benatar, Joan Jett, Blondie, the Cars, Enigma, Prince, U2, Billy Joel, AC/DC, Bon Jovi, Ozzy Osbourne and Billy Idol. Duran Duran, Culture Club, Depeche Mode, the Cure, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, Air Supply, the Bangles, the Go-Gos and Belinda Carlisle. Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac, Stevie Nicks, Journey, Jefferson Airplane, Grateful Dead, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Tina Turner, Queen, Aerosmith, the Rolling Stones, Heart, Elton John, David Bowie. Petula Clark, Julie Andrews, Simon and Garfunkel, the Beatles, Cass Elliot, Mamas and the Papas, John Denver, Diana Ross, the Supremes, Lesley Gore, Cher and Abba. Lady Antebellum, Gretchen Wilson, Carrie Underwood, Tina Turner, Trisha Yearwood, the Judds, Reba McEntire, Dolly Parton, Patsy Cline, Crystal Gayle, Loretta Lynn, and Johnny Cash. Enya, Loreena McKennitt and other new age or Celtic music. All kinds of 80's music but especially Cyndi Lauper, Pat Benatar. Joe Hisaishi (composer). I ESPECIALLY love Janis Joplin. <3 Yay, I finally made a music list! This is a short list relative to all the music I like. I can enjoy listening to almost anything.
Food) All types of Mediterranean and Asian, Mexican, French, Indian, almost anything foreign or ethnic. I LOVE fresh produce and I am a big fan of organic, whole and natural foods. (Not what the FDA calls natural, NATURAL) I love many different types of food, I'm only picky about the quality of it. I don't have much of a sweet tooth. I talked so much about the first four items on this list, I think I'll just leave it at that. XD
Six things I could never do without
Aside from the physical necessities we ALL need to stay alive:
1) People
2) Books
3) Nature
4) Music
5) Humor
6) Spirituality
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The world, politics, how I can better myself, what I can do to make the world a better place. Reincarnation, karma, manifestation, spiritual things and all aspects thereof. The future, how to achieve my goals and aspirations and where life will lead me. My friends and family, both those here now and those no longer in my life. Oh and just people in general.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working and at home after that. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It depends on what you consider private...my only true fear is being alone. Not just for a day or a week, but really alone in the world. It's a completely irrational fear, I have always had many people in my life, but fear often is irrational. I'm very versatile sexually, though...and I like unique, unusual guys.
You should message me if
If you like my profile and want to know more about me. ^_^ If you think we'd make good friends or just if you feel like it for whatever reason. Message me if you are unique and strong in your individuality, as I am. Also if you are very honest and open-minded. I'm pretty laid back and easy to get along with. As I mentioned farther up in this profile, I am also open to casual sex with men.
The two of us