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My self-summary
Let me give you the rules I have about dating:

I will not be fuck buddies.
I will not be friends with benefits.
I will not be in an open relationship.
I will not be apart of your triad.
I am NOT poly.

If you are any of these things or are into any of these things, leave now. Do NOT contact me to be a smartass. I am fed up of people wasting mine and their time to only later find out they didn't read my profile to know I am monogamous. I will always be that way. You will not be the "special person" I break any of these rules. Don't tell me how I am wrong in living this way. You can do whatever you want, but do not include me.

Now that we have that sorted.. here are just a few things about me:

I fall for people emotionally before I fall for them physically. I love meeting people and the people I don't expect are the people I become best friends with. Just because we are best friends does not mean you are friend zoned. This might be were I fall for you emotionally.. who knows. My best friends are held so close to my heart. Sometimes it's hard to know the difference. I don't trust people instantly. It takes time for me to feel safe and myself around new people. You got to take the time to get to know me and love me as a friend, before jumping to romance. I love being with my close friends and going to a diner and talking till the sunrises. Or walking around LA and being free to be silly or geeky or whatever. No judging. Just being. I love people who are different or similar or both. I love interesting people who can hold a conversation. I love people who are passionate about what they are doing or want to do in life. I love people who are themselves no matter what "that" is. I don't care what gender or non gender you are. I don't judge people on their gender. I care who you are as a person.

I am a jack of all trades. I paint, draw, write, film, photograph, set design, edit music videos. You may have prolly seen my stencils/stickers on the walls around town.

)'( I am a norcal and socal burner. )'(

I am really girly, but am also a total tomboy in the sense that I can build and carry heavy things (grinder and rachet girl to the rescue! points if you get that ;) ) and not cry over a broken nail but still wear a pink frilly dress.

I love music. It is my life. I grew up hanging out with bands and musicians (not in the sleeping around way; in the music nerd way).

I graduated high school at 15 and finished college at 20. I don't like age rules. I grew up hanging out and talking with silicon valley folk and I worked for and a Standford thinktank when I was 16. I don't get along with people who get intimidated by smarts. I am me. whatever that means. I am weird, geeky, sweet, idk, you tell me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working as a film editor mostly in the music industry. so editing and directing music videos, live performances, and interviews. I am also just starting a new project to film music festivals and raves for my friend's Doc and website. I am so excited and loving the experience!

Also working with my mum managing her apartment complexes - fixing sinks/toilets, painting rooms, doing electricity, dry-walling walls, whatever other dramas happen.

I go to more concerts than is healthy.
I’m really good at
Dressing well. I never go out in public without looking presentable. Life is too short to not dress up!
The first things people usually notice about me
hmmm..I will let you decide on that xox
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: British rock, new wave punk, old punk, bluegrass, blues, Celtic, EDM, psychedelic rock, garage rock, southern punk, swamp blues, acid Jazz...the list continues.

The Libertines (all time fave), Babyshambles, Black Lips, The Clash, The Kills, Toy Horses, The View, Bob Dylan, The Velvet Underground, Klaxons, Serge Gainsborough, Patrick Wolf, The Almighty Defenders, Neil Young, Joy Division, Snow Patrol, The Animals, Squeeze, Buffalo Springfield, Violent Femmes, Patrick Wolf, Arctic Monkeys, Moby, King Tuff, Timur and The Dime Museum, Langhorne Slim, Jeff Beck, The Pogues, The Damned, The Black Angles, The Black Mountians, The Black Keys, The Dead Weather, Maps, Queen, Django Reinhardt, Crystal Method, Pink Floyd, Tegan & Sara, Bowie, Stray Cats, Cat Stevens, Jack White, cocorosie....tons more so just ask :)

My current band obsession is North Mississippi Allstars.

Harold and Maude (all time fave), Wilber wants to kill himself, Thelma and Louise, Unmade Beds, tank girl, DiG!, xxx (with Vin Diesel..because of the cars!!), The Matrix, Bridget Jones, Midnight Cowboy, Rocky Horror Picture Show, A Clockwork Orange, Party Monster, Blues Brothers, Trainspotting, Kill Bill, Moulin Rouge, Kamikaze Girls, Blade Runner, Kill Your Darlings, LOTR, The Night Porter.....lots more than what's on this list....

David Lynch, Kenneth Anger, man ray, Kubrick, Alexis Dos Santos, Kubrick

TV shows:
Game of Thrones, IT Crowd, how I met your mother, White Collar, Sherlock, Torchwood, Dr. Who, Skins (UK), The Young Ones, Only Fools and Horses, Star Trek, being human (UK), Lie To Me, Veronica Mars, Justified, Weeds, True Blood, Black Adder....more to come...

Grilled cheese, baby! I am vegetarian. I love Indian, Thai, Mexican, Chinese, and 3:30AM milk shakes at Denny's talking with you till the sun rises.

I like more writers than just books. So writers: Saki, William Blake, Flannery O'Connor, Poe, Yeats, Keats, Pete Doherty, Kafka, Oscar Wilde, J.R.R. Tolkien, Fyodor Dostoyevsky, C.S. Lewis...more to come....
Six things I could never do without
close friends
editing bay
My journals
The Playa
Technology ( yes that's 7 things - don't limit me)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
film script ideas
math stuff
how cool cemeteries look
how to film a scene
or how to shoot a cool location without getting caught
architecture (i will totally geek out about a cool building)
Spanish Gothic style of buildings are so freaking cool
how to build, fix things
what to draw/paint/write next
what would look cool on a wall - wheat-paste/stencil wise
why people act the way they do
so many things, just ask me.
On a typical Friday night I am
There are no "typical" days with me.... Sometimes my Fridays consist of:

Eating fire or dancing on the beams of a warehouse in a tutu.
Teaching myself poi
Watching a gig
At an art show.
going on an art mission
Staying at home working on art.
Editing something.
Finding new music.
Seeing friends
At a rave -- filming.
...never know what will happen and that goes for every day of the week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I ran away from home when I was a teen but I am here to stay :)
You should message me if
I would love to meet someone who is a good, kind person & who is genuine. I don't care what your gender is/isn't. If you are a smart, interesting, sweet person, I'd love to get to know you. I have to be friends with you before we are anything more. Be open to new ideas, be a kind person and I think we will do just fine <3


Because you want to! Just do it! Say hi! I know how hard it is to get the nerve to write. I can be really shy and not know what amazingly brilliant thing to say in an opening letter.

Or if you want to do any of these things below...

If you will go to burning man with me <3

If you want to snuggle in bed and watch Tank Girl or Rocky Horror or some other awesome film.

Or you want to get coffee or a drink sometime and talk.

Or you will meet me in Thunderdome on the playa!

Or go a see a band play somewhere :)

You think smart girls are fuckin' sexy.

If you LOVE different kinds of music or ideas or just being silly. Let's have adventures!

Important Note Please Read Again:
No FWB, hook ups, triads, poly, open, etc please. I don't share or play well with others. No couples either. I mean this. I am not being coy. I am monogamous with only one person at a time. Don't know why, but that's just the way I am wired.
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