51Oaks, United States
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My self-summary
If you were to judge just by my pictures, you would logically conclude that cross dressing is a significant part of my life. While it is part of my life, it is a very small part of who I am. However, I capture the moments on the webcam, so those are what I have on my computer available to share. I know people at work who use this site for dating, thus the cropped out face. If we start a conversation, I will not remain anonymous.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working a lot - by profession, I work in financial services, plus a few hours every week in retail. For fun I do community theater, some acting, some singing, some directing. As paybacks for the fun and friendships that I've enjoyed performing, I also do a lot of the behind the scenes and grunt work involved in getting a show up and keeping the building and organization running.

In my home life, I am a married home owner with a pretty decent sized garden, all three of which are labors of love I wish I could spend more time with.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating, whether it's trimming the tomato plants, filing the taxes, of getting this profile complete.
Singing, and selling the song. As in acting through it, or the way you felt what Sinatra was feeling when he sang a torch song.
Other people's finances...good at the advice, not organized enough for my own.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Of the last year: Hugo; Moneyball; Tintin; The Muppets; Rango; Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy; Beginners; The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo; The Artist; My Week with Marilyn; The Descendants; Midnight in Paris.
Going back: Casablanca; Up; Airplane; The Taking of Pelham 123 (original - the interplay between Walter Matthau and Jerry Stiller, who aren't even in the same room is fantastic!) Glengarry Glen Ross; A Fish Called Wanda; The Big Lewbowski; Fargo; Young Frankenstein; Moonstruck; The Princess Bride; The In-Laws (original with Falk & Arkin); Being There;

Shows on the DVR or On-Demand
30 Rock; Community; The Soup; Craig Ferguson; The Daily Show; The Colbert Report; Smash; The Amazing Race; Rules of Engagement; Real Time; Robot Chicken.

Stage Shows
Les Miz; Play On; Wicked; The Color Purple; Seminar; Crazy for You; The Life; Glengarry Glen Ross; Play On.
to have been in: Barnum, The Crucible; Kiss Me Kate; Mack & Mable
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is work making me miserable enough to give up over 5 weeks of vacation, a 20 minute commute, and knowing the culture to start from scratch at 45?
Whatever random thought pops into my head uninvited while I am working on the garden or painting the house and won't leave until I have a chance to dump it into someone else's head.
On a typical Friday night I am
In a community theater show, seeing friends who are in one, or decompressing with my wife with a few drinks and catching up on the week's Daily Shows on the DVR.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a profile on
You should message me if
You like to play in the rain, roll in the mud, splash in a fountain, or wrestle in pudding (so far I'm 3 for 4)
You'll jump in a pool fully clothed both for the spontaneity and the way it feels.
You're a couple looking for someone new to corrupt, and a friend might be nice too.
You're a cute, convincing, androgynous CD who can teach me subtle, yet striking eye techniques...and other things.
You find the sexiest scene from 9 1/2 weeks the one in front of the refrigerator.
The two of us