35Eugene, United States
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My self-summary
First things first. I'm mainly looking for other poly folks, but monogamy isn't completely out of the question either. I'm mainly looking to date people, but I'd also be into making platonic friends too.

I'm straight-ish with a little bit of queer. I'm mostly into womyn but I also can be into androgyny and folks outside the gender binary. I'm not into cis-men.

I work in Information Technology.

I'm a musician. I play a few instruments but upright bass is my main one. I write and record music. I like all kinds of music. Rockabilly, psychobilly, jazz, rock, indie, lo-fi / garage, folk, classical Indian music are some of my faves.

INTP. I'm thought driven and low key a lot of the time and value knowledge and creativity.
What I’m doing with my life
Playing music, cuddling with animals, and working on random projects.
I’m really good at
I'm a jack of all trades. My biggest talent is playing music.
The first things people usually notice about me
I giggle a lot
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music : rockabilly, psychobilly, garage/lo-fi, indie, jazz, folk, world music - especially Indian classical and Tuvan throat singing, industrial, rock'n'roll of all kinds. It would take forever to write all of the genres and bands I like.

My favorite fruit is persimmons (hence my username) I eat veg a lot of the time but not 100%. I'm a celiac so gluten-free only. I like curry and stir-fry quite a bit as well as more standard american fare. For drinks I love ciders.

My favorite movie is probably Crybaby. I like all kinds of indie/artsy films.

Books: Right now I'm reading boring computer/programming books and hopefully one of these days some Kafka I picked up a while ago....
Six things I could never do without
I could do without this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music, working on my instruments, computer nerd stuff, whatever other projects I get interested in, sexy time, recording music, songs that I should be writing words to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing music, going to see live music, burlesque, drag shows or other performance arts, kickin it with friends or at home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My social security number is ....
You should message me if
The Ouija board says 'yes'
The two of us