28Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
country mouse/city mouse. low brow/high brow. working on being fluent and fluid.
What I’m doing with my life
DIY MFA'ing. Freelancing gigs, mostly cooking. Eating well and riding my bike. Last year I spent 3 months in Montreal, 4 months in Chile and Argentina, as well as traveled to half a dozen US cities, so right now I'm just trying to stay more rooted in the Bay and re-connect with friends/places/events/my cat & my garden here.
I’m really good at
Juggling a variety of gigs and personal projects. Staying in touch with friends and chatting up strangers. Not being scared of much and seeing the bright side. Ceramics, farming, postcards, random one-offs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got a hippie name, my grandmother's great nose, and I can talk to most anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Foreign and indie everything. Old blues. Podcasts and public radio. Short stories. Nonfiction about relationships/sex/self improvement/cog pysch. Criterion Collection. Very, very occasionally I watch TV like Broad City, Master of None, High Maintenance, and Parks and Rec. Belgian and sour beer. All foods Japanese. I eat mostly vegetables and grains, but I don't have any dietary restrictions.
Six things I could never do without
greenery, scenery, and the proximity of plants
dreaming & scheming
intimacy with emotionally literate people
drinking tea in the kitchen
something new to learn
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Socially engaged art, cultural equity, open relationships. Where to best place my time and energy in the Bay to contribute to something positive.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays aren't that different than any other day. Making dinner with a few friends. Going on dates. Kitchen table philosophizing over tea/wine/beer. Frisbee in the park. OMCA. Some kind of art/cultural event in SF or East Bay.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Enneagram 7 with a 6 wing
You should message me if
You're curious, outgoing, and interested in language(s). You are definitely weird/quirky with a little bit of that "je ne sais quoi" coolness. You're a feminist. You don't take yourself too seriously and "fun" is one of your values. You're interested in art and art making.
And, if and only if, you're sex worker positive.
The two of us