26 Portsmouth, United States
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My self-summary
I am 22 years old, in the midst of a divorce. I am an active duty sailor who loves being in the military, and am making it a career. I go to school full-time online, and I do a lot of volunteer work on the side. I also have a fledgling candle company that I am working on in my spare time.

Beyond that, I am also a submissive. I am heavily involved in my local BDSM community and have found my stride there. I greatly enjoy meeting people in the lifestyle, in a safe sane consensual environment. BDSM to me is not just a bedroom activity, it is a part of my daily life, and any partner I may become involved with, needs to understand and respond to that. I seek both sexual and service domination, and am happiest at my Sir's feet. This does not mean however, that I have any interest in abusive quasi-doms, and anyone acting in such a manner will be ridiculed and then blocked.

I am an individual who seeks stimulating conversation, and enjoyable company. I enjoy debating and discussing many topics, and have a wide array of knowledge, and am constantly learning more.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a sailor first and foremost. I am an active duty sailor, and I love my career. I am also a student, taking online classes for the time being. I am studying in Forensic Psychology, with a special interest in psychological ultra-violent criminals. I put a high value on my education, and have a true passion for what I study.
I’m really good at
Really good at? I can't say I am "really good" at much...but I take true enjoyment in making homemade candles that are safe for skin contact and wax play.
The first things people usually notice about me
My personality, plain and simple. I am excitable, exhuberant, and always quick to get involved in something. Jump in the ocean in january for charity? Been there, done that. Dress up as a Sith Lord for a movie I don't really want to stay up till midnight to see? Done that.

I don't hold back. I am very open about myself, including myself in the BDSM community, and I take great pride in that.
The six things I could never do without
1) BDSM as a part of my life.

2) My IPOD (which is a schizophrenic beast on the best of days)

3) Intellectually stimulating conversations

4) Something I could write on be it a laptop or a plain old pencil and paper.

5) My best friend.

6) some kind of career or job.
On a typical Friday night I am
I do many things in my free time, it all depends on my mood. Sometimes I need the loud chaotic thrum of a band as I jump around like a loon in combat boots and a mesh top. Other times, I would rather sit at hope with a good book and a cup of hot chocolate or tea. Occasionally I want to go dance, and sometimes I'd rather just sit with friends and play cards.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes feel so overly stressed by everything I do that I just shut my phone off for a weekend, and hide. I go invisible on facebook and fetlife, and all my other websites and just hide out.
You should message me if
you seek someone to share intelligent conversations, spontaneity, and kinky times with. You should message me if you'd like to learn about BDSM, or candles....or if you just want someone to connect with.