Fair warning, I am only on okcupid once in a blue moon.
If you want to get together and drink too much caffeine while talking about urban planning, restorative justice, food systems, stories as data, CPTED, placemaking vs. gentrification, urban form, the economics of happiness -- we will be best friends.
Some non-fiction: The End of Gay: and the death of heterosexuality, Sex at Dawn, Zami: A New Spelling Of My Name, A Continent for Taking
I am currently reading Family Properties: How the struggle over race and real estate transformed Chicago and urban America. It may be the best book I have ever read.
O. And shoes. I spend a considerable amount of time thinking about shoes.
b. You are a Feminist.
c. You can hold your ground.
d. You're silly/odd/goofy/obscene/witty/gnarly and sarcastic.
e. You are Body Positive.
f. You're a nerd and you'll hunker down, smoke a bowl, and watch STNG or DS9 or BSG or Firefly with me.
Really, Don't bother if:
a. You identify as socially or politically conservative.
b. You're a Straight identified couple looking for a play toy for the night.
c. You're pessimistic/not a people person/not an animal lover or some other form of a socially regressed downer.