34Missoula, United States
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My self-summary
san francisco->los angeles->tokyo->orlando->brooklyn...
What I’m doing with my life
8hrs work/8hrs leisure/8hrs sleep

learning learning, teaching the kids, learning from kids, making performances about what it is that we are, sometimes being a blue man, showing irony the door - then pleading for it to come back because the house feels so cold and lonely when it's gone too long

endlessly fascinated by everybody's bullshit.
I’m really good at
keeping calm, inventing languages, finding common ground, listening, telling you when I haven't been listening, geography, building lesson plans, napping, talking with children, human anatomy, drinking whiskey, spelling, celebrating mistakes, parallel parking, whistling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
read Catherine Lacey, Ben Lerner, Jesse Ball, Murakami, DFW, science-y shit, about 3 1/2 pages of NYer profiles

listen to Reggie-Alan Watts, and Morricone.

and just watch Being There already
Six things I could never do without
my blue Bianchi
great sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
alan turing. seasteading. micronations. polygraphs. gender.

what someone's voice tells you. radical honesty. presence. Whether or not that thing I just ate is affecting my ability to focus. Focus. Autism. How to get close to water.

not quite sold on sarcasm. or being clever. in fact, go away clever, i don't want you around.
On a typical Friday night I am
Bob Ross + valium + boxed Zin
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i sometimes pretend i'm on the phone and laugh hysterically in public places
You should message me if
you know where i can find great coffee.
you more than just "kind of get" that sex and gender and identity are fluid and defined by plurality.
The two of us