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My self-summary
Vulcan in the streets.
Romulan in the sheets.¹

I'm currently living in Logan Square—but the steadily increasing gentrification is making it feel more like Lakeview on the daily. Help.

My interests include many nerdy things (comic books, tabletop games, front-end web development, smart-ass dad jokes), as well as many political and philosophical things (intersectional feminism, sex positivity, being GGG, secular humanism, sonder).

Occasionally, I go swing dancing, or spend far too much time researching clothes I want to wear. Oh: and I think big bottoms are the tops.

¹Though I've watched most of TNG, I wouldn't consider myself a Trekkie in the slightest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ah, this is the section where I say a bunch of random phrases, and your lady-parts activate like a revealed Cylon.

Comics: Saga, Y: The Last Man, Ms Marvel, Astro City, Sex Criminals, East of West, Watchmen

Tabletop Games: Netrunner, Abyss, Kemet, Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, Star Realms, Terra Mystica

Music: Kendrick Lamar, Warpaint, Danny Brown, Janelle Monáe, The National, Childish Gambino, Eisley, Tegan and Sara, Kayne West, Purity Ring, Social Studies, Portugal. The Man, Queen

NPR Radio Shows: Planet Money, All Things Considered, Ask Me Another, This American Life, Invisibilia

Food: pie (because I’m not a cake-preferring heathen), barbecue, mac and cheese and Sriracha, peanut butter cookies, the salad dressing at Blue Fish, jelly beans
Six things I could never do without
• You can handle playful teasing, and witty banter with a touch a goodhearted sarcasm.

• You know how to have a lively conversation—which means asking questions.

• You're perfectly fine with low-key evenings, and playing board games to pass the time. But you also would like to go out dancing one in a while.

• You're curious about the world around you, and never stop exploring and figuring things out.

• You're not afraid to be a little weird (because: what even is "normal"?), and know that climbing trees is cool. As is cuddling.

• You've got a fairly-high sex drive, and are comfortable expressing that aspect of yourself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think cooking together will tell you everything you need to know about a relationship—any collaborative project really; but cooking is great because you have to eat what you make, and it's hard to fake that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Though I'm the eldest of three children, I'm pretty sure I've got a middle-child complex going on. As such, I've never really been particularly close to my family.
You should message me if
I prefer meeting fairly soon because chemistry is difficult to quantify without body language, hearing and seeing someone in the flesh. So, why wait to see if something will click for us in those first few moments?

Treat yo’self,
The two of us