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My self-summary
Hi. I'm Cassidy.

One of my best friends and I shared our first kiss in fifth grade, in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the swimming pool and tasted like popsicles. Prior to the kiss, she consulted with her council of ladyfriends and I individually consulted with a few trusted manfriend advisors. It was pretty cute. Now, as you and I consult this amorphous Okcupid Beast, I wonder, where are the Popsicles and Swimming?!

Taurus Sun; Virgo Moon: Virgo; Cancer Rising; I/ENFP; yin water pig.

My dating picture: I've mostly dated AFAB folks and I'm mostly attracted to femme or androgynous folks. I am non-monogamous. I'm dating the smartie-hottie known on OKC as Lamote. We date other people separately and are open to meeting folks together. As of fall 2017, I'm through with grad school (grad school was my primary partner) and am now opening up to meeting folks for dating.

I have Good Crazy dreams of living in a fabulous, mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Maybe on an urban-ish farm/lab/studio collective. Do you live somewhere like this?
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I'm practicing expressive arts therapy at a medical rehab internship. I've worked as an elder caregiver for ten years. I practice witchcraft, guitar, singing and improv theatre (although not so much improv since 2015).
I’m really good at
washing dishes, karaoke, public transportation, kissing ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
Perhaps my occasional Okie vernacular, such as "whipper jawed." It really can be the best word for certain situations. I say y'all and howdy often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"If space is love, Professor, then is love space? Or is love something we use to fill space? If time eats the donut, does love eat the hole?" -Tom Robbins

"The idea of art as self expression is historically weird." -Keith Johnstone

"Look, you come here every week / With jigsaw pieces of your past / it's all on little sound bites and voices out of photographs / And that's all yours, that's the guide, that's the map / So tell me, where does the arrow point to? Who invented roses?!" -Dar Williams

Since Spring 2015, I've been getting into eating meat (carnitas burritos and bacon were my gateway meat) after years of being vegetarian. Not sure how long this meat eating will last....
Six things I could never do without
Time and space for: guitar, biking, tarot, masturbation, theatre in various forms, and sugary treats!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why and how does the passage of time effect us differently depending on how long we've been alive? How does this lead to ageist ideas and behavior? Is age just a number? Does focusing on age sometimes distract from other realities?
On a typical Friday night I am
At a pretentious academic talk or theatre show, vegging in front of a screen, makin art in my underwear, or playing with (real) magic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Someday I plan to cover up my culturally appropriative tattoo with something amazing...probably something tarot related. My understanding of tarot is that it's saturated in cultural appropriation, so it will have to be a really good tattoo.
You should message me if found something in this profile intriguing enough to comment on it. I guess I'm old fashioned in that I am more interested in people who I can tell are interested in me! I usually don't respond to messages that mention nothing about my profile. are a curvy, direct, toppy or switchy femme with bottomless eyes and a sarcastic sense of humor; are experienced with non-monogamy; are equally into cuddling in bed with a movie or a biking/hiking day trip; maintain an artistic practice; are passionate about nesting and growing roots; speak/act up for truth and justice; and are kind. want to play Ladies Against Humanity, DiXit, Telestrations, or Fiasco. want to talk about this question.
The two of us