One of my best friends and I shared our first kiss in fifth grade, in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the swimming pool and tasted like popsicles. Prior to the kiss, she consulted with her council of ladyfriends and I individually consulted with a few trusted manfriend advisors. It was pretty cute. Now, as you and I consult this amorphous Okcupid Beast, I wonder, where are the Popsicles and Swimming?!
Taurus Sun; Virgo Moon: Virgo; Cancer Rising; I/ENFP; yin water pig.
My dating picture: I've mostly dated AFAB folks and I'm mostly attracted to femme or androgynous folks. I am non-monogamous. I'm dating the smartie-hottie known on OKC as Lamote. We date other people separately and are open to meeting folks together. As of fall 2017, I'm through with grad school (grad school was my primary partner) and am now opening up to meeting folks for dating.
I have Good Crazy dreams of living in a fabulous, mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Maybe on an urban-ish farm/lab/studio collective. Do you live somewhere like this?
"The idea of art as self expression is historically weird." -Keith Johnstone
"Look, you come here every week / With jigsaw pieces of your past / it's all on little sound bites and voices out of photographs / And that's all yours, that's the guide, that's the map / So tell me, where does the arrow point to? Who invented roses?!" -Dar Williams
Since Spring 2015, I've been getting into eating meat (carnitas burritos and bacon were my gateway meat) after years of being vegetarian. Not sure how long this meat eating will last....
...you: are a curvy, direct, toppy or switchy femme with bottomless eyes and a sarcastic sense of humor; are experienced with non-monogamy; are equally into cuddling in bed with a movie or a biking/hiking day trip; maintain an artistic practice; are passionate about nesting and growing roots; speak/act up for truth and justice; and are kind.
...you want to play Ladies Against Humanity, DiXit, Telestrations, or Fiasco.
...you want to talk about this question.