Originally from New York City, I came to New Mexico to study architecture, get healthy, and to learn how to love. I'm a thinker. The feeling realm is less comfortable for me and I hoped being around spiritually conscious people would teach me how to open my heart. Meanwhile, architecture satisfied me as a profession. Now, things are slow, and I've turned my attention to drawing and painting and printmaking, and writing.
For fun I study personality systems. I love them because they help me understand people, which to me are very complex and confusing. Nevertheless, I find them fascinating--their psychologies, philosophies, tendencies, etc. One of the systems is Astrology. Others are the Enneagram, Myers-Briggs, the PersonEssence system by Jose Stevens, Destiny Cards, and if you know one not on this list I would love to hear about it. These are hobbies. I don't not earn money with them. I do astrology charts for my friends. If you contact me, expect that l will ask you for your birth data to run a chart. This will allow me to see if we are compatible. This is not a dangerous procedure. It's quite practical, as it prevents wasted trips and meetings. It's merely a tool for me to find a way into society, and to speed up the "getting-to-know-you" process of dating. It's like a map of an unknown territory, and as one would not go on a mountain hike without a map, I won't get involved with anyone without looking at their personality maps.
Other than that, am creative, health conscious, spiritual and intellectually probing. I am an intelligent, attractive and fit woman with a lot of talent in many areas, and a lot of love to give. I believe in "connection" at first sight and love at second sight. I believe there is no impossible. I am seeking a HEALTH CONSCIOUS, loving, intelligent, fit and financially stable man who is open to the personality systems I find so interesting. I live on the edge of the imaginable and am looking for a companion to share my adventure towards love, creativity, insight, longevity and bliss. Bliss starts with a Kiss. Let's see what happens - SLOWLY.
As an INTP, I love to study, create, and solve problems. I love a good intellectual discussion (not politics though, because that causes too many arguments). ENTJ's and ENFJs are supposed to be good for me, though any iNtuitive will be great too.
My directness and sincerity.
I've seen Schindler's list 4 times, and in general I like intelligent, romantic stories, or intelligent comedies. TV shows I have watched and like: Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, House of Cards, The Good Wife, etc. etc. and believe it or not, I like a good sappy Hallmark movie.
I'm on a Biography kick, and lately I've read about Georgia O'Keeffe, Beethoven and Brahms. I love Beethoven more though.
A roof over my head with all the creature comforts,
A car - as much as I love to walk, Santa Fe does not lend itself to life without one.
A cell phone - yes, I like to talk on the phone and I hate missing calls the minute I leave the house.
Decent comfortable clothing, and
Organic, non-GMO food - This is very important.
I guess I can do without all the things everyone else says they can't do without. I wish I didn't have to do without love and companionship, but the reality is that I am still alive without them. I think I wouldn't be very happy without a home or a dog. The relationship would be the icing on the cake.
If you have a decent, recent picture ready to go on this site. I won't respond to anyone without a picture. If your picture is teeny tiny and I can't see your face, or if it's blurry, then I won't respond to your message. Do yourself a favor and put some good, recent pictures up. Women want to see what you really look like.
If you are willing to talk about life, food, and astrology, psychology and philosophy; if you are healthy and open to being healthier. If you are financially stable. If you can handle an assertive and creative woman who knows what she wants. I you are interested in sharing a life of exciting lessons and adventures. If you like dogs. If you don't smoke or wear cologne or wash with toxic commercial soaps or are willing to learn about non-toxic alternatives. If you wear cotton or silk - NO Polyester. If you like green drinks or are willing to try one. And lastly, if you ARE NOT in a hurry to jump into bed. I like sex, but only as an expression of love. I am not into casual sex. At this age, it's not satisfying. So, for me, sex comes after I fall in love with you. So be patient. If you are a nice person, and there is chemistry, then it won't be too long. I promise.