anou4u
59 Santa Fe, United States
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My self-summary
I'm not an ordinary person. Nothing I choose is common; instead, what I select is of the highest quality. With food, I buy organic and fresh; with clothes I buy one-of-a-kind, solid colors, 100 percent healthy material; with entertainment, I choose the most highly reviewed movies, books, restauants. The latest technology appeals to me too; I keep mine up to date. This makes me unusual. Although I would rather share this way of being with others, I'm ok being one of the few. If you understand where I'm coming from, then I'd love to hear from you.

Originally from New York City, I came to New Mexico to study architecture, get healthy, and to learn how to love. I'm a thinker. The feeling realm is less comfortable for me and I hoped being around spiritually conscious people would teach me how to open my heart. Meanwhile, architecture satisfied me as a profession. Now, things are slow, and I've turned my attention to drawing and painting and printmaking, and writing.

For fun I study personality systems. I love them because they help me understand people, which to me are very complex and confusing. Nevertheless, I find them fascinating--their psychologies, philosophies, tendencies, etc. One of the systems is Astrology. Others are the Enneagram, Myers-Briggs, the PersonEssence system by Jose Stevens, Destiny Cards, and if you know one not on this list I would love to hear about it. These are hobbies. I don't not earn money with them. I do astrology charts for my friends. If you contact me, expect that l will ask you for your birth data to run a chart. This will allow me to see if we are compatible. This is not a dangerous procedure. It's quite practical, as it prevents wasted trips and meetings. It's merely a tool for me to find a way into society, and to speed up the "getting-to-know-you" process of dating. It's like a map of an unknown territory, and as one would not go on a mountain hike without a map, I won't get involved with anyone without looking at their personality maps.

Other than that, am creative, health conscious, spiritual and intellectually probing. I am an intelligent, attractive and fit woman with a lot of talent in many areas, and a lot of love to give. I believe in "connection" at first sight and love at second sight. I believe there is no impossible. I am seeking a HEALTH CONSCIOUS, loving, intelligent, fit and financially stable man who is open to the personality systems I find so interesting. I live on the edge of the imaginable and am looking for a companion to share my adventure towards love, creativity, insight, longevity and bliss. Bliss starts with a Kiss. Let's see what happens - SLOWLY.

As an INTP, I love to study, create, and solve problems. I love a good intellectual discussion (not politics though, because that causes too many arguments). ENTJ's and ENFJs are supposed to be good for me, though any iNtuitive will be great too.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning as much as I can; since there is no work in architecture; I am making art, writing a book, immersing myself in Beethoven, and ice skating. I spend a lot of time training and playing with my dog Sasha, who is a wonderful companion who is also very intelligent.
I’m really good at
Computers, making healthy meals, drawing, painting, printmaking and sculpture, dancing, training and taking care of my dog Sasha, writing, skating, and giving astrology readings.
The first things people usually notice about me
My body and my smile, my intensity and my intelligence.
My directness and sincerity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite food: organic, Vegan, Vegetarian, Sashimi, an occasional egg. Favorite music: Beethoven, Eva Cassidy, Adele, The Beatles, Enya, Dance music, middle eastern music, Russian music. Favorite books: anything about health, nutrition, psychology, astrology, and spirituality, and Le Petit Prince.
I've seen Schindler's list 4 times, and in general I like intelligent, romantic stories, or intelligent comedies. TV shows I have watched and like: Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, House of Cards, The Good Wife, etc. etc.
I'm on a Biography kick, and lately I've read about Georgia O'Keeffe, Beethoven and Brahms. I love Beethoven more though.
The six things I could never do without
I'm a realist, so even though I could say I couldn't live without peace and love, I actually do all the time. However, I could not live without:
A dog,
A roof over my head with all the creature comforts,
A car - as much as I love to walk, Santa Fe does not lend itself to life without one.
A cell phone - yes, I like to talk on the phone and I hate missing calls the minute I leave the house.
Decent comfortable clothing, and
Organic, non-GMO food - This is very important.

I guess I can do without all the things everyone else says they can't do without. I wish I didn't have to do without love and companionship, but the reality is that I am still alive without them. I think I wouldn't be very happy without a home or a dog. The relationship would be the icing on the cake.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to do my best in every situation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching a movie, or reading a book. Please, someone, give me another option...a date!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
my private life is not something I want to share on a dating website.
You should message me if
If you are over 55 and younger than 72. I am not interested in dating a man young enough to be my son or old enough to be my father. I AM NOT A RELIGIOUS PERSON, SO IF YOU ARE CHRISTIAN AND GO TO CHURCH AND SAY IT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU, THAN I AM NOT THE PERSON FOR YOU. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE.

If you have a decent, recent picture ready to go on this site. I won't respond to anyone without a picture. If your picture is teeny tiny and I can't see your face, or if it's blurry, then I won't respond to your message. Do yourself a favor and put some good, recent pictures up. Women want to see what you really look like.

If you are willing to talk about life, food, and astrology, psychology and philosophy; if you are healthy and open to being healthier. If you are financially stable. If you can handle an assertive and creative woman who knows what she wants. I you are interested in sharing a life of exciting lessons and adventures. If you like dogs. If you don't smoke or wear cologne or wash with toxic commercial soaps or are willing to learn about non-toxic alternatives. If you wear cotton or silk - NO Polyester. If you like green drinks or are willing to try one. And lastly, if you ARE NOT in a hurry to jump into bed. I like sex, but only as an expression of love. I am not into casual sex. At this age, it's not satisfying. So, for me, sex comes after I fall in love with you. So be patient. If you are a nice person, and there is chemistry, then it won't be too long. I promise.
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