30 Shanghai, China
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My self-summary
Arts and music type of guy with a knack for not updating his OkCupid profile. Just recently refreshed it, but I'm confident that it'll stay like this for the foreseeable time. Good thing that whatever is written will probably still be accurate. More or less.

in committed open relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
Being curious about things.

Arts, Music, and Education.

I’m really good at
Looking and listening at things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on what they find intriguing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The favorite ones would likely be the ones I hold emotional attachment to, regardless if they're "good" or "bad".

In no particular order, genre or medium:

Adventure Time
Waking Life
Do Make Say Think
New Noise
Fire Emblem
The Congress
Steven Universe
Mind Game
Majoras Mask
Nocturne op.9 no.1 in Bb minor

(the list is perpetually under construction)
The six things I could never do without
Adventure. Growth. Humor. Conversations. Compassion. Play.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music. Creative projects I'm currently undertaking. Pedagogy. Layman psychology, philosophy, intersectionality, linguistics, and so forth...
On a typical Friday night I am
Adventuring. Probably something music related.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...I feel as if I have to be ashamed of something before being able to "admit" to it.

hmm... In the past I didn't give the endeavors I embarked upon my everything.
You should message me if
I'm probably down for strictly casual encounters if you tell me your fantasy.

Kinda curious about couples right now.

alternatively (preferably): you wanna have vivid conversations. Best way to start any type of relationship, really.