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My self-summary
EDIT: Let's repudiate and destroy fascism together. And be kind as hell to everyone.

I love fun, but I work too hard and occasionally need a reminder to have some.

Born and raised in northeast Queens. New York is like a big sister to me; I admire her, but sometimes I get sick of her and wish she'd just shut up. I love discovering new places near and far. I'm a compulsive listmaker who's actually pretty great at living in the now. No one can get enough of my dance moves. Take me to a block party and I will make friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Agency copywriter. (I promise I've never made anyone call me a "creative"😷.) On my own time, I write edgy short fiction about insufferable people. I love photography, thrifting, theater, comedy, aerobic yoga, knitting, cooking, baking, hiking, ice skating, travel, board games and Duolingo.
I’m really good at
Close reading, planning vacations
The first things people usually notice about me
Loose curls, amicable realness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Department of Speculation, The Little Friend, Pastoralia, Sag Harbor, Death in Venice, Saint Joan, Americana, Americanah

Movies: Harold and Maude, Blue is the warmest color

Shows: Grandma's House, You're the Worst, Transparent, Fleabag

Music: Amy Winehouse, Billie Holliday, Bessie Smith, Nina Simone, Janis Joplin, Edith Piaf, Lhasa de Sela, Josephine Foster, Denai Moore, Lizzo, Years & Years, Karol Conka, Islands, Tom Rosenthal, Sylvan Esso, Blondie, Television, New Order, Talking Heads, Yusuf

Food: Bread forever.
The six things I could never do without
Apart from physiological needs and human relationships:

1) My laptop, Holly
2) My iPhone, Thom
3) Financial independence
4) Leisure time
5) Amtrak
6) Pens
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How could I have saved Amy Winehouse?
Will they notice if I check my phone?
What's something I have not yet done — and can I do it today?
Am I subverting a trope or just becoming one?
Do I need real shoes for this?
On a typical Friday night I am
going somewhere new with old friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want it to work.
You should message me if
You want to talk to someone on your wavelength.

You have an esoteric hobby that you enjoy sharing with people.

You won't give me any of the societal agita.

You want to do one of these things:
- finally go to the Met Opera
- finally go to Coney Island
- finally go to Staten Island
- see an Annie Baker play
- see the Dyker Heights Christmas Lights
- pick something at random off nifty/skint
- Nitehawk
- Night Train
- Videology
- Metrograph
- The Uncommons
- Any and all museums
- Gallery openings