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My self-summary
I love fun. That said, I work too hard and occasionally need a reminder to have some.

Born and raised in northeast Queens. New York is like a big sister to me; I admire her, but sometimes I get sick of her and wish she'd just shut up. I love discovering new places near and far. I'm a compulsive listmaker who's actually pretty great at living in the now. No one can get enough of my dance moves. Take me to a block party and I will make friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Ad agency. (I promise I've never made anyone call me a "creative"😷) On my own time, I write edgy short fiction about insufferable people. I love photography, thrifting, theater, comedy, aerobic yoga, knitting, cooking, baking, hiking, ice skating, travel and Duolingo.
I’m really good at
Close reading, planning vacations
The first things people usually notice about me
Loose curls, amicable realness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Collected Stories of Flannery O'Connor, CivilWarLand in Bad Decline, Pastoralia, The Goldfinch, A Manual For Cleaning Ladies

Movies: Harold and Maude, The Dish and the Spoon, Blue is the warmest color, Crystal Fairy and the Magical Cactus

Shows: Grandma's House, The Chris Gethard Show, Broad City, Please Like Me, Master of None, You're the Worst, Atlanta

Music: Alice Smith, Amy Winehouse, Nina Simone, Janis Joplin, Denai Moore, Lhasa de Sela, Josephine Foster, Lizzo, Years & Years, Haze, Karol Conka, Islands, Tom Rosenthal

Food: I'm really into salsas right now.
The six things I could never do without
Apart from physiological needs and human relationships:

1) My laptop, Holly
2) My iPhone, Thom
3) My financial independence
4) My leisure time
5) My corrective lenses
6) Pens
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How could I have saved Amy Winehouse?
Will they notice if I check my phone?
What's something I have not yet done — and can I do it today?
Am I subverting a trope or just becoming one?
Do I need real shoes for this?
On a typical Friday night I am
going somewhere new with old friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want it to work.
You should message me if
You want to talk to someone on your wavelength.

You have an esoteric hobby that you enjoy sharing with people.

You won't give me any of the societal agita.

You want to do one of these things:
- finally go to the Met Opera
- finally go to Bossa Nova Civic Club
- finally go to Coney Island
- finally go to Staten Island
- see an Annie Baker play
- pick something at random off nifty/skint
- Nitehawk
- Night Train
- Videology
- Metrograph
- The Uncommons
- Any and all museums
- Gallery openings