archaeum
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My self-summary
a bit of this,
a byte of that,
a bite of you,
& a different point of view;
some things, to me are see-through
in trying to find, "what is true?"
~
yet, others still
are opaque and oblique;
I bend myself around them,
I seek and I seek--
portal after portal...
~
I am a slipstream;
what can I channel--
what can I create?

Greetings!
I am a poly-singleish ethical non-monogamist~
I am currently building a connection to two individuals, but I am also interested in finding chemistry with a creative friend to go on adventures and do fun things with, be it art, music, sharing skills, Netflix chill, etc.

I'm kinda kinky (still developing), a playful dom-switch, and I'm fluid inside and out...I dress more feminine if it suits me, when I feel safe and that varies of course, but I have come into a pretty hybridized style to let me feel like me no matter where I am :)

My primary love languages are eye contact, touch, words, and time, but you probably already knew that! Especially if you and I also share deeper language.

I study several forms of typologies, but I do not really fit into a neat box when I take those tests. I am usually ~50/50 across the board, depending a lot on mental/emotional state as well.

In many ways I can say that I am equal parts all things. In some ways this balance is great, and in some ways it is challenging.

I want to use my body as much as I use my mind, which is a bit on the extreme side apparently... so things like embodied movement, ecstatic dance, and yoga are important in my life to maintain balance. Balance is important in my life to maintain happiness. Happiness and personal joy are the medicine that I use to befriend existential dread ^_^
What I’m doing with my life
Primarily?
I am trying to build a long, rich life. Walking a path to transcend my limits and join the collective to support a more connected and healthy civilization by organizing a long-term plan to build a non-profit sanctuary/ institution of knowledge, and acquiring skills and experiences conducive to the above.

Secondly, as an integral sub-evolution to the Primary, I am continually challenging my sense of identity with respect to my gender and physical expression while integrating unreconciled memories and emotions that surface in the process. I may have a clearer picture of what identity that may rest upon one day, but for now it remains fluid and non-binary.

Beyond that my near term goals are more in line with achieving solid societal personhood: saving to buy an adventure-worthy set of wheels, getting a degree in something I am passionate about.
I’m really good at
exploring!
being "weird"/synaesthetic
dancing in the flow
self-managing my sensory/emotional overwhelm
Juxtaposition/bringing awareness to missing contrast

using a french-/aero-press
splitting infinities
inside-outer-introspection
pleasurable things
getting distracted/being super productive
serenading you with spontaneous improvisational piano playing
driving, as well as standing on the bus without holding on
not freaking out in emergencies!
general mediation/counseling/listening
seeing patterns of all kinds in way too many dimensions -
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
#1 Books:
science fiction fantasy urban magic, reference/textbooks, mystic poets, metaphysics,
some favs on my shelf right now:

The Kingkiller Trilogy by Pat Rothfuss (inc.)
The Codex of Souls by Mark Teppo (inc.)
Jump 225 Trilogy by David L. Edelman
the Priscilla Hutchins series by Jack McDevitt
Larry Niven, Frank Herbert, Ursula Le Guin, Greg Bear
Keyboard Player's Chord Bible
The Essential Enneagram
various writings of Kahlil Gibran & Rumi

#2 Music:
downtempo ambient spacefunk futuresoul
midtempo ethnobass psytrance braindance/idm
fusion jazz rock melodic/symphonic/orchestral
new-age world eastern devotional

#3 Omgnomnoms: somewhere between (a not-as-poor-as-they-used-to-be 90's kid) and (a gourmet chef)... give me all the phở, gyros, pizzas, noodly stir-frys, garLicky french fries, deep-fried PB-Js whenever possible, coconut/cinnamon everything, good veggies&roots, many many fruits, dank smoothies with lots of protein and maca...doesn't look like I eat much though, does it?? It's always been a struggle for me to eat enough to fuel my absurdly high caloric needs. I still occasionally forget to eat or simply ignore my hunger; old dying habits of suppressing myself. Developing a good relationship to food has been something that has taken me a long time to get to where I am at now. I am always open to trying new tastes and relish opportunities to learn from others who get cooking more than I do ^_^
Six things I could never do without
besides Maslow's Needs, here are three more sets...because three is the best number.

bass music
other people's pets
my synth && all the chords
books/the Internet/really fucking good quotes & passages
whiteboards/sketching
healthy skepticism/my everlasting curiosity!

hilarity injector
generosity engine
cuddle maximizer
sound-holes
connective modules
shoes

messy hair
cats
internet
the bus
love
leggings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
societal evolution, current events, historic/anthropologic connections, my relationships present-past-future, my gender, identifying my desires and what turns me on, how to communicate more effectively...

space, physics, sciency stuff in general

crazy existential stuff, faith, orders of consciousness, the mechanism of birth/life/death/beyond

artsy things

I am sparing this box from the burden of bearing the weight of any kind of exhaustive mental inventory. Trust there is a lot going on in this noggin. Ask me Anything.
On a typical Friday night I am
arting, writing, composing, imagining, dreaming, trying on outfits, dancing, making mixes, spending time with housemates, friends, and cuties, thinking about the next secret music gathering...or probably working.

For real tho, reality check: I'm really weird. I like to enjoy myself, and I am nerdy as fuck. I might seem like a sane normal human but there are just things and ways that don't usually occur to me. I support and broadcast positive, constructive, transformative vibes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty open about my stuff :P

1. Having an OKC profile helps me keep my shit together!
(No, seriously. The process of writing and forcing myself to reflect upon what I objectively and subjectively represent is one of the few ways I know of to stay coherent and observe my flux across time. So it's important to me and I make sure to do it every so often.)

2. At age 7, once I was diagnosed with ADD, I began to develop an intense mistrust of institutionalized medicine. Internally I decided to develop my own authority of mental well-being and focused on how to manage and harness my faculties.

3. It still makes me blush and turn rubbery and giggly when someone I like says I'm anything nice. Probably literally anything. I haven't tested this or whatever though. I mean it happened again so I'm pretty sure this is a thing and I am just cute so I should stop stressing it :D
You should message me if
you wanna make out while watching Rick & Morty and see how long either of us can go until we have to laugh, whoever laughs first gets spankings

;)
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