32 Gloucester City, United States
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My self-summary
(I'm guessing this is what you'll want to know first)

I am 5'5"-5'6" (depends on the shoes!) and a "full-figured/thick/curvy" woman.

Someone told me I'm not allowed to say "fat." Their argument was that I'm too well-proportioned to use the "F" word. I have an hourglass shape with padding, I guess. I did join a gym, but getting thin is way farther down my list than getting healthy!

I have long untamed curly hair. I usually wear it up; rock that side ponytail; so it doesn't get too out of control. It's soft, full of tangles and on occasion I straighten it.

I dress pretty stylishly. I have an eclectic wardrobe full of stripes, polka dots and colors. I love dresses/skirts, heels and flats, and I almost never wear jeans or sneakers. I dress appropriate for my size and I like to show off my DD cup.

I have two tattoos; nothing outrageous. Upper back and lower leg. Parts of my ears, my nipples, and my tongue are pierced but I rarely wear any piercings except the nipple rings which are too difficult to remove and replace.

I am well-groomed. I spend my time at the salon getting waxed and manicured and all that. My nails are long; my skin is soft and freckly; I floss my straight teeth regularly; and I like to smell good. As for the carpet situation...It's not wall-to-wall, but I have a throw rug. I don't really like bare floors. I wish people would stop shaving off all their pubes. I mean, I don't want to weed whack my way to your junk, but it's scratchy on the face when it grows back and I'm attracted to adults, not prepubescent boys/girls.

(Is this you?)

Sex, ultimately. But not just sex. I really don't find myself turned on by someone unless I enjoy their company.

A girl who is confident and capable. Shy is fine but I have the sort of personality that tends to overwhelm quieter girls.

A girl who dresses like she's going out. It doesn't have to be fancy, but some style is nice, even if it's not "trendy."

A girl who is intelligent and cultured, but NOT pretentious about it. I am very interested in learning and trying new things, so a girl who likes things that are different from my usual routine is a bonus.

An active girl. I like hiking, walking, going to the gym and playing sports. I find it hard to sit still and need people with high energy to move right along with me.

A girl who is tactile. I love touching. I love hand-holding, sitting close, an arm around your waist, a parting hug.

(In case you don't like surprises)

I'm into (though I don't need):
Dominance & submission
Voyeurism and Exhibitionism
Sadism & Masochism (light!)
(You're either a chubby-chaser or you like novels if you've gotten this far!)

I am easy-going and accepting. Very rarely angry or offended. I get along with most people, and I like people of all types. I'm not rigid when it comes to plans or expectations. Compatibility for me is not related to shared interests or viewpoints, but more about a mesh of personalities.

I tend to be courteous, considerate, generous, and kind. But I am not a "nice" girl. I love freaky sex. I like things that are dark and morbid. I listen to metal and watch horror movies. I smoke, drink, and do drugs.

I'm socially...*gulp*...LIBERAL. I will fight for your freedom. Even if I'm not into what you're into, as long as your fight doesn't infringe on another's rights, I will be your soldier. I am a humanitarian. I'm charitable and I will go out of my way to help others with no personal gain. People often confuse this with me being a doormat, but if you try to take advantage of me, you will quickly learn I am no pushover. While people have described me as "sweet", just as many have described me as "strong," "assertive," and "capable."

I'm not embarrassed to admit I love food. I hate people who say "eat to live; not live to eat." That's like saying, "Only have sex to procreate; not to enjoy it." Food is one of life's greatest pleasures!

I like a little drama but only from a spectators standpoint. Being that I am a fluid and relaxed individual, my life is pretty calm. A lot of people are uncomfortable meeting me since I'm married, but let me say this: I AM NOT SNEAKING AROUND. My husband is comfortable with me meeting women, hanging out with women, sleeping with women, etc. I am comfortable with him meeting women, hanging out with women, sleeping with women, etc. (In fact, he's even on this site jonrm1980 and it turns me on when I can watch! ;] ) Neither of us is prone to jealousy. Both of us are secure in our marriage. I love my husband very much. He is my BFF! I want to grow old with him. I want him to hold my hand when I'm on my death bed. I want more children with him. We have supported each other through rough times. We hardly ever argue. It's not that we don't care enough to argue, it's that we're both agreeable and close enough to talk the few disagreements out. We compromise and communicate.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, Partying, Hanging out, rolling bums
I’m really good at
Daydreaming and working, at the same time.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dark, curly hair and self-confidence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Desperation, The Giver, Roller Birds of Rampur.

Movies: American Psycho, Terminator 2, Phantom of the Opera

Shows: A Haunting

Music: Everything, .. except free-form jazz

Food: Grilled Cheese, white rice, honey, and I have a love-hate relationship with peanut butter.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Family
2. Coffee
3. American Psycho
4. Books, I can't pick just one.
5. My purse
6. A chainsaw, .. you know for Zombies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Serious contemplation: My future, my life, sex, self-improvement, my family, world cultures and travelling/moving to foreign countries, fashion design, the past, strategy

Daydreams: Vampire/elf hybrids, having magic powers, the end of the world, getting rich, my dream home
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends after a late night at work
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I talk a lot 'cause I'm nervous.
You should message me if're laid-back. You think women are inherently sexy by virtue of being female. You've always wanted to go somewhere or do something new but were unsure - let's adventure together! I have lots of ideas to keep things interesting.