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My self-summary
Hi! I'm John. I like to think I'm a thoughtful and passionate person. I love my friends. I identify as queer, gender fluid, and polyamorous. I collect records and tapes. I get really excited at concerts, I smoke a lot, and I love dancing. Making, playing and listening to music is what makes me happiest, followed by quality time with friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Music - I went to school for it but dropped out to go on tour. I play bass & synths in a few different groups and I spin techno out around town pretty regularly. I am currently living in a house in South Park with some close friends. I deliver pizza for money.
I’m really good at
Making noises, shaking people, lateral thinking, being excited, driving
The first things people usually notice about me
I have pretty long eyelashes. I also get a fair amount of comments regarding my sideburns. I like to hug new people, though I typically ask first :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have too many favorites! I prefer techno, punk, and experimental/psychedelic music. I watch neo-noir for days. Favorite authors are Kafka, Camus, William Burroughs, and Philip K Dick. You can check out my profile here:

When it comes to food, I'm particularly fond of anything bitter or spicy. Thai food is my favorite, and Indian is a close second. I don't really cook, though I'm learning. My housemate is a chef at Kindred, so I eat vegan pretty frequently. My only real dietary limitation is that too much sodium on the regular gives me kidney stones. Also, please never give me coffee - I have trouble saying no, and it really runs a number on me. I don't like candy.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What Assistant Director Skinner Would Do
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not very good at wrestling.
You should message me if
You want to give me music recommendations
You're a burner/festival person
You also play in a band
You want to grab a drink
The two of us