69Newport Beach, United States
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My self-summary
I'm just another guy.. happy to make others happy (who make me happy?!), Have not quite figured out what I'm going to be when I grow up. (makes it easy to relate to the kids) . Curious but not nosey . Swim & surf for exercise (also chase the dog...) OK I admit it... I'm an artist, it's how I make a living and I have ALL the quirks that come with it...{{buddhist}}ish. I DON'T WANNA' GET MARRIED. At least on the 1st date.... I'm not adverse to the thought but isn't it a cool idea to go for a bike ride, sit at the beach, let a friendship develop?? I don't want a "life" partner. I'd love to meet someone whom I'd feel vacant without though. You know .. the kind of person who challanges you to be and do a bit more than you're up to now.. and when they're missing you don't need to fill in the gap with someone else (hmmmmm). Then there's sex ...........................Love it ... but it's not what I'm here for. Let's face it, I'm not a social recluse, I live in a place where single girls outnumber men about 5 to 1. I'm old(er) but not ugly. Playing is always an option, just not the one I choose.

I am dad, playful, and adventureous
What I’m doing with my life
Working, playing, raising the last kid (18 yr old son). Working, which really isn't working cuz' I love it. Travel as much as possible. Costa Rica/ Mex/ Hawaii/long drives. Doing a lot of creating the "who I am " . Looking at becoming a bit ( how is this measured??) more aware of my actions and their impact on the world around me. Appreciating what is here, now ( now if I could only hear!).
I’m really good at
Playing, talking, listening (remember.. I'm a guy though. The real question is what am I hearing???). Ignoring the obvious, being self centered, procrastinating,................
The first things people usually notice about me
Oh ..please don't notice..
It's what's in the heart that counts (isn't it?) I'm 10 lb. too heavy right now ( it's my winter coat. Who needs wetsuits??) Hair's a lot of grey -white now,. eyes and smile (isn't that what overweight,low self esteem people say?).
At ease (really) I gave up worrying about what other people think I am a long time ago.
Inherently happy with a few rough moments to wake me up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dumb sci-fi, eastern philosophy,comedy & action films (art films too)
ALL music with a leaning to acoustic and some eastern jazz.
Any food that won't eat me 1st. I love to cook, hence the extra 10 lb!
Six things I could never do without
My kids, the ocean, sun, projects, good friendships,ice cream, dark chocolate, laughter, challanges (and soon.. a dictionary), a reward now and then, encouragement, dental floss, music , a guitar, an old car, a bicycle, good flip flops, living by the water,bgiving and getting love and affection ( yes, I know, .. more than 6 )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
that I think too much....!(......... ok...ok sex... I'm a guy remember)
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my son, listening to /making music. seeing a movie. walking-biking around the bay,Night paddles (when it's a bit warmer)........... ( there are 6 more days ya know !!!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
when I look in the mirror , the face I see is older than my energy level thinks I am.
There's a hole in my life for a playmate/soulmate.. And the hypocrite that I am, I am not physically attracted to overweight people.(whew).
I am , however , attracted to youth, (not the chronological one.. your daughters are safe...) but the spirit of..
I really appreciate a person for whom time and energy level are not limited by the date of their birth.
You should message me if
You're interested.. (how else would one answer this???)
The two of us