38 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
i'm an extrovert. a talker. a listener. transparent. an adventure seeker. a world traveler. a picture taker. a jokester. spontaneous. vegetarian. year round outdoor soccer player. hiker/camper. scuba diver. animal lover. i laugh and smile more than others. i'm grounded but high on life.
What I’m doing with my life
sex therapist/LGBTQI therapist and social justice advocate.
I’m really good at
being real. and being real short. i'm really 6'3"...i just have a stronger gravitational pull than everybody else.
The first things people usually notice about me
my curly locks
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
fav magazine EVER - national geographic
fav movie - eternal sunshine of the spotless mind & adaptation
fav documentary - louder than a bomb & wardance
fav broadway show - hamilton
fav tv show - game of thrones & planet earth series
fav music - too many good options to choose from
fav concert EVER - MJ, smooth criminal tour
fav subway listening - NPR ---- wait wait don't tell me, radiolab, this american life
fav website - TED talks
fav cuisine - mexican. real mexican. not that tex-mex shit
fav destination - galapagos
fav store - REI and/or EMS...i want everything in that place!
The six things I could never do without
an animal to greet you at the door
passion / passionate sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
evolution. social justice. our current fucked up political system. cultures. the power of language/words. how i can visit every country in the world before i die.
On a typical Friday night I am
making some kick ass veggie meal. dining out. movie watching. hanging with friends. dancing up a storm. going on a date with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i have many life stories that involve horses.
You should message me if
i am interested in the following types of folks - androgynous folks, trans-male/trans-masculine spectrum folks and women of the soft-butch and dyke variety as well as straight cis-guys. i am NOT attracted to femme women. sorry ladies.

you want a real connection.
you are an honest person and open communication is of the utmost importance to you.
you are looking for another fire-starter.

a (few) favor(s) to ask of you:
please don't email me one liners
please don't email me if you do not live in the NYC area. i'm not interested in a long-distance relationship.
please don't email me if you don't know what LGBTQI means.
please don't think that because i'm a sex therapist that gives you permission to use me as your therapist for your sexual dysfunctions and/or fantasies.

cheers! happy hunting!