38Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
i'm an extrovert. a talker. a listener. transparent. fucking honest. an adventure seeker. a world traveler. a picture taker. a jokester. spontaneous. master chef. vegiesaurus. year round outdoor soccer player. hiker/camper. scuba diver. animal lover. i laugh and smile more than others. i'm grounded but high on life.
What I’m doing with my life
sex therapist/LGBTQI therapist and social justice advocate.
I’m really good at
being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
my curly locks
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
fav magazine EVER - national geographic
fav movie - eternal sunshine of the spotless mind & adaptation
fav documentary - louder than a bomb & wardance
fav broadway show - hamilton
fav tv show - game of thrones & planet earth series
fav concert - MJ --- smooth criminal tour
fav subway listening - wait wait don't tell me, radiolab, this american life, serial, TED talks
fav cuisine - mexican. real mexican. not that tex-mex shit
fav destination - galapagos
Six things I could never do without
an animal to greet you at the door
passion / passionate sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
evolution. social justice. our current fucked up political system. cultures. the power of language/words. how i can visit every country in the world before i die.
On a typical Friday night I am
making some kick ass veggie meal. dining out. movie watching. hanging with friends. dancing up a storm. going on a date with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i don't believe in valentine's day. or any other "hallmark created" holiday for that matter.
You should message me if
i am interested in the following types of folks - androgynous folks, trans-male/trans-masculine spectrum folks and women of the soft-butch and dyke variety as well as straight cis-guys. i am NOT attracted to femme women. sorry ladies.

you want a real connection.
you are an honest person and open communication is of the utmost importance to you.
you are looking for another fire-starter.

a (few) favor(s) to ask of you:
please don't email me one liners
please don't email me if you do not live in the NYC area. i'm not interested in a long-distance relationship.
please don't email me if you don't know what LGBTQI means.
please don't think that because i'm a sex therapist that gives you permission to use me as your therapist for your sexual dysfunctions and/or fantasies.

cheers! happy hunting!
The two of us