43San Antonio, United States
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My self-summary
I try to balance being "self-aware" while at the same time enjoying the simple things in life. I love just getting out of the house and going for a bike ride with friends, grabbing a latte or just going for a swim in a lake or the ocean. Have done two sprint triathlons and it was, well, transformational to mind, body, and spirit.

I'm also a Big Brother with Big Brothers Big Sisters of South Texas - being involved in molding a young man is very fulfilling and gives me a chance to give back.

Recently spent time at Corpus in the ocean and wonder why I don't do it more often; sun, ocean, sand, nature...
What I’m doing with my life
What am I doing with my life? Mmmm, well, trying to enjoy it more! I'm really looking forward to meeting new people with different and interesting personalities to try new things with. I love to go biking, hiking and swimming.

I really love South Texas and have a career in software that has many opportunities so I see myself being here for a long time. I also travel to L.A. and Toronto as often as I can to spend time with family.
I’m really good at
...knowing that I can be much better at many things...

But also connecting with people and being there when they need a hand. Listening...listening to someone is very important, not just hearing them.

Taking feedback from others; changing aspects of how I live my life when they no longer suite what I'm seeking. Listening to other's points of view is something I also try to do because it's sometimes difficult to see things in yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Chomsky, Martin Seligman...
Music: Tim McMorris (great song/video: and the like, alternative, classic rock...
Food: love all kinds of food, Mexican, middle-eastern, Asian, in addition to a traditional cheeseburger!
Six things I could never do without
the outdoors
my bike
my cell phone
hiking in Hill Country

+1 sashimi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life and how to enjoy it more and more
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with a friend, grabbing a bite, or just chilling out
You should message me if
if you're looking for a connection that has the potential to become something special if the energy is right...

...or, if you're looking to add new people and friends in your life.

Taking a page out of another user's book and giving credit to @TejasTornado:

"I don't believe empty, out stretched hands are an offer of intimacy. I don't believe in voids or missing pieces. Life has fault lines and chasms, but they're for exploring not filling. I'm not interested in serving as white noise for someone who fears the sound of their own thoughts. I want to meet people who at least dabble in adulthood and active evolution. "

And nothing to do with any of this but a really cool website:
The two of us