34Antioch, United States
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My self-summary
I suck at relationships but I'm willing to work on not sucking any more. I want something of substance right now in my life. I don't believe in monogamy in the sense that im not sure if its always realistic but im not opposed to testing that theory. Please don't think this means I'm not open to a relationship I'm still just figuring out what I want and I feel like I should be upfront with that. I do believe in finding someone who compliments you. I'd like to find a companion whose willing to be patient with all my commitment issues and help me to figure it out. I want to have fun with someone. Be silly and passionate and comfortable with each other. I don't know if I'm being unrealistic but I'm not willing to settle.

Shoot, I'd say I'm part hippy part nerd part indie rock fanatic. I'm sarcastic yet wanna save the world. I'm awkward yet socially adept.
I'm a huge Giants fan, love to go see games. I'm weirdly obsessed with talk radio I listen to knbr or NPR every day.
I love being really silly and laughing. A great sense of Humor and the ability to laugh at one self are very important to me. I feel very weird describing myself in a paragraph like this... My friends say I'm intelligent and fun to be around. I have a huge heart but I'm really selective about who I let in. I'm very outgoing and easily can talk with anyone.
I have no trouble meeting guys I just think lately I'm meeting the wrong guys hence returning here.

You can check out my Instagram if you wish @exceptforbunnies
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a manager at a crazy amazing local pet store. I can honestly say I love my job and am incredibly proud of the company I work for. They are what all companies should be. I probably won't shut up about because I'm so obsessed with my job. I apologize ahead of time :)

I'm totally crazy about my animals, just putting that out there lol. My dog eats frozen raw food and comes to work with me and my cats are also spoiled to death. I'm an animal lover so if you're not cool with animals you should prob move along.

I also have a second job backstage catering at some local live music venues in the Bay Area. That job is also amazing. I've been fortunate to see some amazing shows for free and meet some of my favorite bands. Sometimes it doesn't seem like real life!

Watching the Giants on tv or at a game (i love the Giants, i spend way too much time watching games. Shhh dont tell anyone...). I will rival your sports knowledge like a boss.

Being super pissed that Lena Dunham wrote my show. I seriously love Girls but Lena Dunham and I are weird life twins and she beat me to the punch :(
I’m really good at
Whistling, I'm a super amazing whistler. Talking to all different types of people. Remembering the words to a song I just heard. Using emoticons.
The first things people usually notice about me
That i talk a lot! That I'm a really positive person. That I like to sing, sometimes in weird places. That I love to laugh. That I can be weirdly neurotic sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Count of Monte Cristo, Wuthering Heights, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Inheritence Trilogy, The Brief and Wonderous Life of Oscar Wao, his dark materials, Crime and Punishment.

Music: Mumford and Sons, Radiohead, Blind Pilot, Dr. Dog, Delta Spirit, Arcade Fire, Rogue Wave, Amy Winehouse, bright eyes..

Shows: Doctor Who, Firefly and anything Joss whedon related. Orange is the new black, vampire diaries.

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Serenity, I heart Huckabees, Saved, Mean Girls and way too many more
Six things I could never do without
my kitty Mal aka kitten
my dog Xander
Giants games
Anything Joss whedon Related
Ok I cheated and added 2 more, It's only okcupid...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Debating whether i should run off and join a commune. How crazy this world is now. How I can work from within the system to change it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably watching a Giants game or Netflix. I might also be getting a beer with girlfriends and prowling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think beards are sexy. I'm also partial to tattoos, glasses and Betty Paige bangs. I watch Pretty Little Liars and not in an ironic way.
You should message me if
Please don't message me if you feel
a burning desire to send me a dick pic or you think it's cute to talk about sex in the first minute. While sex is great I'd like to meet you first and decide if I'm even attracted to you before we start showing each other body parts or talk about sex.

You're intelligent, maybe a little nerdy, like to have fun and youre responsible but aren't too serious about life. If you think "hella" is annoying and would burn any affliction or Ed hardy shirt that comes your way I'd like that too. If you're a mans man and spend less time getting ready then me. I also clearly like beards :) i like interesting sometimes unusual people.

And If you arent looking for a relationship with pressure and expectations right off the bat, but want something more then casual. Or if you're looking for something serious but think you can be patient with someone who is totally neurotic :).

If you're racist, homophobic or sexist go away and don't come back. Also I'm not afraid to send you a message if I think you're interesting. Reply or don't. I'm probably too confident in many regards and I like meeting new people.
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