I'm pretty laid back, and tend to take things as they come, I'm not a big planner. Easygoing and easy to get along with. I tend to go with the flow but I am assertive when necessary. In other words, I'm not an alpha, but I'm far from a doormat. I'm intelligent (look beyond the degree) and love learning new things. I'm into outdoor activities, biking and hiking, and kayaking and scuba were a couple of things I was doing when I lived in California is a new thing that I'm enjoying. I do tend to have more of a twisted sense of humor that leans towards the absurd (I'm a minor comedy geek). I'm always up to try something new, although it is difficult for me if I have a preconceived idea. I enjoy most types of music (typically not country, but see the previous sentence). I am also a single dad to a great son who is the most important thing in my life.
I'm looking for a partner. What does that mean? Not someone that is dependent on me for their happiness or that I am dependent on for the same, but we are happiest when together. Someone to enjoy enjoy spending time with, and wants to share the adventure of exploring new places and things, while being OK with doing things apart on occasion. someone to have deep meaningful conversations with as well as silly ones. Someone that's willing to understand that people have bad days sometimes and knows the other person well enough to know that it's a temporary mood, not who they are. To like/love each other as we are and not see a need to change them while helping improve each other. And is willing to either let them sort it out or help them if necessary.Someone that is considerate and kind. I have a pretty big heart, and am loyal to my friends, and am looking for the same. I don't do jealousy or possessiveness, and expect the same in return. And of course the usual stipulation about no games or drama (aren't we a little too old for that by now?). The bottom line is that I'm looking for someone to love and to be loved. I want that "connection" with a special person. Oh, and it would be awesome if you can quote Bugs Bunny. Simple, right?
I'm not looking to "hook up", or a one night stand. I'd like to get to know you and have a friendship. If we don't enjoy each other's company, then there's no point in taking it further. If that sounds good to you too, then please send me a message.