42 Aurora, United States
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My self-summary

I am a regular guy, I work hard, and I'm pretty basic. I’m a confident man who is ready for a relationship and knows what he wants in life. I am looking for someone to spend time with and see where things go from there. I have a good sense of humor, I love to cook, like normal things and am fun to be around. I am a gentleman. I open doors, have manners and respect women. I kill spiders (or anything that needs to be squished!).

I am up for all kinds of adventures, I have the opinion that it is more about the company you are with than what you are doing.

But what makes me, me are little things. I am a kid at heart. I am fiercely competitive when I want to win, but if I lose I handle it well. I care for others and help when I can. I make my own future and if I find something I am not happy about I don't whine about it I do something about it. I am sarcastic and will give you a hard time, because I think it's awesome if you can handle it and give it back to me. I don't get upset easily and would rather laugh than be stressed anytime. I am the type of person that you can have fun with doing just about anything, even getting groceries. I like to cook/BBQ for people and haven't killed anyone yet! I am decisive and take action on the things I am interested in, would like the same trait in you. If you are always in a funk, I am not going to be a good fit for you.

I can tell you I will respect you for you are. I am trusting (even though I have had that bite me in the A$$ in the past). I communicate and not afraid to open up to someone. I am confident but not arrogant. I am reliable and if I tell you I will do something, I will.

As far as music I listen to quite a bit. Some of who I listen to are Ben Harper, Sarah McLachlan, Areosmith, Maroon 5, Montgomery Gentry, Godsmack, Kenny Wayne Shepherd, Laucna Coil, Amiee Allen, so I listen to varied music and like finding new music to listen to.

There is much, much more to me. I will share more for those who are daring enough to send an email. We have to have something to talk about when we meet right? 
What I’m doing with my life
Experiencing it of course! I am of course working towards my goals, but I think we should enjoy the ride of life. It's not always perfect but it's how you choose to deal with what comes up that defines you. Most people dont understand they get to choose if they are happy.
I’m really good at
I'm a jack of all trades type, I am usually good at anything I try. Backgammon has been the exception lately though!
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am down to Earth, I will get you to laugh or at least smile, and when they pay attention I have a mosaic eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books, Rule #1 investing, Law of Attraction.
Movies, ones where people overcome adversity.
Music, too many to mention.
Food, I could keep you on here for hours. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Car (much better than walking 12 miles to work)
Caffeine (not a morning person lol)
Good food, wine with good company
My iPhone (sad I know)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I am going to accomplish my goals. Why I always seem to be helping people. All kinds of things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have 11 fingers!! I'm kidding, I don't really know what to put here.
You should message me if
A lot of profiles say if you want to get to know more about me say hi, if you want to or something very open ended. How about this, if you want to get to know me in your first email tell me about what kind of food you enjoy or like to cook. Since I am big on cooking I know I will want to reply:) Other things for me would be favorite wineries that you have been to, places to go hiking, or even the last thing that made you laugh. We can start there and see where things go, easy enough?