bcisonfire
27Calgary, Canada
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My self-summary
I'm in my late-20s, and I kinda feel like I'm starting to get my life together. I'm solo poly and looking for people of all genders and intimacy levels, but not looking for anything too codependent - I love my independence and avowed spinsterism. I love riding bikes, cooking, reading, gardening, and going out for drinks/food.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to kick ass in my career. Attempting (and procrastinating) to write poetry/short stories. Riding bikes. Thinking way too much about transportation infrastructure.
I’m really good at
Writing, cooking, riding bikes.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm (at times obnoxiously) politically outspoken.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'm basically married to the library, so it might be hard to list. Ivan Coyote and Kurt Vonnegut are pretty great. I'm kind of on a neverending short story compilation kick.

Movies: I'm not a huge movie watcher, but I do dig documentaries.

Shows: Buffy or Sense8, maybe? I don't watch a ton of TV.

Music: I'm on a huge hip hop kick lately. Recent faves are J Dilla, Nujabes, Swet Shop Boys, Death Grips, Little Simz, RTJ, Mac Miller, and A Tribe Called Quest. This list constantly rotates.
(I also super love punk, indie, electronic... loads of stuff. Just stuck on the hip hop train for the past year or so.)

Video Games: My current most-played system is my SNES, no joke. I also got an Everdrive recently and have been on a serious N64 kick. Retro games ftw.

Food: Vegan stuff! Curries, falafel, vegan pizza (yes it exists, and it's amazing), risotto, burritos, etc. I'll pretty much eat anything that didn't come from an animal!
Six things I could never do without
-Bicycles
-Bicycles
-Music
-Good food
-Art
-Friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of the universe, existential crises, feminist theory, oppression, politics, and urban design.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to a show, hanging out with friends, hitting up a climbing gym, or having a couple drinks. A Friday night spent at home is a waste of a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Doesn't broadcasting this to the Internet at large make it no longer private? Might as well go for a trifecta:

-I don't know how to whistle (You just put your lips together and blow.)
-I sing (probably terribly) in the shower
-You know when you're eating some olives and you run out of olives, but you just want to keep the party going, so you drink a tiny sip of the brine, but it totally doesn't taste like olives, it just tastes like salty barf? Yeah, I totally do that. I never learn.
You should message me if
A bike ride, a show with some middling local band (but they still manage to get everyone moving), or an art show is your idea of a good time.
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