I long for companionship full of warm, comfortable, silences. Dancing, in the kitchen, in the middle of the afternoon. gentle, playful, and passionate, enthusiastic sex. camping out under stars. looking up in Times Square, and looking long in MOMA.
an artist. an entrepreneur. WAY more straight than most wacky folks, but Way more wacky than most straight folks. liberal - but Pragmatic. Plenty smart and not afraid to show it, but committed to trying not to be an as asshole about it. Pretty opinionated, but pretty detached about them.
i come with
- an old beach house full of wood
- a grown up kid off and launched (and the freedom!)
- a baggage cart - mostly processed and passed on, but a few carry-ons are left
- a committment to communication, cooperation, & negotiation
- 5 identical sextuplet sisters and 2 second cousins twice removed
- america's largest future institution
i'm holding out for somebody
kind. able to relax, open up, be honest. not angry much day to day, and not a complainer. pretty liberal. Giving. pretty smart. Ready for a real Partnership. The five things i most appreciate in a partner, in order: helpful, supportive, companionship, sex, cuddles.
(also - within 1.5 hours of boston, or moving here. not actively parenting kids <12)
i only have chemistry with guys that
Don't have a permanent beard, and Do have more of a tennis/bicyclist than an american football player body (guys like: barack obama, david bowie, leonard cohen, anderson cooper, bob marley, lance armstrong)
(now more than ever, no: conservatives, cops, current/recent military, hillary haters, proud non-voters, libertarians, communists, puritan punitive pissy perfectionist progressives, S/M aficionados. Also no permanent beards /mustaches, or football player frames, as I don't have physical chemistry with that and sex is a big part of dating.)
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I am not open for hookups, FWB, or "casual dating but no relationship." Absolutely relationship takes time to build but so few today are truly willing to build one. Sad!