62Sunnyside, United States
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My self-summary
After 20 years of being in a sometimes happy, sometimes frustrated marriage, I decided it was time for me to stop living a life of lies and deceit and be true to who I really was, a gay man, and to start pursuing my own pathway to happiness. That pathway has had many high points and low points with many obstacles thrown at me by fate. While I have met many wonderfully sweet men over the years, some for short term relationships and others for brief encounters, my search continues for that one "Mr. Right" that I can be with long term, sharing everything in our lives together. to see who I'm searching for. Maybe it's you?
What I’m doing with my life
still figuring that out myself. Life is an ever changing book. I've been a pastry chef, a realtor, a wine sales consultant, an administrative assistant, a graphics artist and magazine columnist, and computer support technician. I love to sing and perform and have traveled Europe fairly extensively. Looking for my next adventure!
I’m really good at
As a graduate of the Culinary Institute of America, I'm really good at doing anything in the kitchen. I used to be a pastry chef and make amazing cheesecakes and cookies. I'm a good writer. I can sing tenor. I've done paintings.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, look at my pictures. I'm difficult to overlook. I'm generally the biggest person in the room. But I've got a big personality as well as a big heart. For those who know who the Bloodhound Gang is, I'm the naked fatman in the box on the cover of their last CD, Hefty Fine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like SciFi movies, superhero movies, romantic comedies, action adventure, fantasies... Some movies I've liked recently include John Carter, Battleship, The Raven, Woman In Black, Fishing in the Yemen, Loosies, Chronicle, Red Dawn, People Like Us, Hit & Run, Dark Shadows and looking forward to seeing the new Spiderman, new Xmen, Magic Mike, and more. Movie review blog at

I've watched EVERY episode of Doctor Who since 2005, Torchwood, and love Merlin, most shows on SyFy channel (except the stupid "reality" shows), SMASH, Vampire Diaries, Secret Circle, American Idol, America's Got Talent, Who Wants to Be A Millionaire, Person of Interest, Awake, and enjoyed G.C.B., Flash Forward, all Star Treks, Battlestar Gallactica, etc.

Foodwise, I like most cuisines except Indian and Mexican. Particularly like Italian, Argentine, and Brazilian. I'm a carnivore... Love my meat!
Six things I could never do without
A kitchen
Knowing someone cares about me
Sex (hey! I'm a Scorpio!)
Internet Access (since I have friends around the world)
My memories of the beautiful places I've traveled to! (Hope I never get Alzheimers!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how messed up this world has become after 8 years of Repugnican leadership (using the term very loosely) and how I don't think it's ever going to be quite the same again due to the massive redistribution of wealth on a worldwide basis, and what you and I can do about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
wishing I had someone special to spend it with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
in a past life, I was a pimp daddy with 20 boys working for me! But I stopped because I didn't like what I saw it do to their self-esteem.
You should message me if
You prefer or don't mind being with a big guy, and you can make me feel loved and cared about, and are looking to be loved in return.
The two of us