bflynapr
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My self-summary
OkC Dating Persona Quiz Results: Maid of Honor
https://www.okcupid.com/personality?type=DGLM&g=2&o=1

Dear Man of my Life:

I am looking for you.

I am adventurous, inquisitive, and classy... a bright, affectionate, playful spirit, ready to laugh... who desires your company.

Are you a GOOD man? My expectations are high.

Do you live near me? I do not own a car.

Am I physically attracted to you? Hmmm. And you, me?

Will you, exquisite soul, come to be my best friend?

(FYI I: If you wonder why I answered "other" for Religion in the Details section, I subscribe to the Unitarian-Universalist principles.)

(FYI II: I use the "Like" button because, if you "Like" me back, we will both get an e-mail that indicates our mutual liking!)

.....I want to be physically attracted to you even as the looks that please me vary. Please tell me that you possess the intellect, backbone, and tenderness that make you a man of substance and character.

.....I hope that you are mindful and communication-savvy in easy and difficult time, genuinely interested in understanding. Rather than bicker in times of conflict, let's be allies in search of resolution, treating gently our vulnerabilities in order to feel safe with one another.

.....I want us to be glad just being together, whether during the mundane moments of life or during the romantic, memorable, inimitable moments in life. Whether working on projects together or independently, let's be grateful for simple joys, enjoying the comfort of each other's company.

.....I long to share warmth and attention, allowing our romance to evolve and deciding how we wish to continue our lives together as partners. We sit and talk, we watch and we listen, we express affection, we cook, we exercise and walk on trails, we travel, we problem-solve, we cry, we offer comfort, we go out to dine and to see movies or performances, we learn, we dance, we laugh, we sleep.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing non-fiction--a memoir--and a book related to my master's thesis. Participating in Toastmasters! Going to the gym. Handcrafting earrings and necklaces to de-stress.
I’m really good at
Listening to and encouraging others... dolling up... leading... joining in... cooking... public speaking... traveling (someday)... taking care of animals (no matter their special needs)... not wasting time in dead-ends... not giving up!... appreciating the paradox...
The first things people usually notice about me
The manner of my dress is quite fashionable, femme, sexy, elegant, fun, creative. I prefer the wonder of self-expression through decoration. People also notice the nine rings on my fingers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Jiddu Krishnamurti's Think_on_These_Things;
Kahlil Gibran's The_Prophet;
Leo Buscaglia's Love;
M. Scott Peck's The_Road_Less_Traveled;
Maxwell Maltz' Psychocybernetics;
Csikszentmihalyi's Flow;
Eckhart Tolle's The_Power_Of_Now and A_New_Earth;
Ray Bradbury's Cat's_Cradle and Dandelion_Wine...

I also appreciate the teachings of Tara Brach!

"The Fisher King," "What Dreams May Come," "The World According to Garp," "Tne Fugitive," "Regarding Henry," "Harold and Maude," "Birdy," "Big Fish," "Philadelphia," "City of Angels"... I do not drag boyfriends to chick-flicks... I enjoy good stories and character development and cringe at gratuitous violence... sci-fi or action-adventure can be fun... also definitely must see a movie first and then dinner to talk about it.

My taste in music varies widely. The childhood staple was Billy Joel and most of his music appeals to my aesthetic and sense of nostalgia. no artist/group dominates now. I take my music on a song-by-song basis.

Thai, Vietnamese, Ethiopian, Italian, Mexican, Chinese, American...! I tend to be healthily discriminating about what I consume yet there are so many tastes to savor!
Six things I could never do without
...my mp3 player!

...Metro--bus and rail,

...loving friends who share initiative, genuine mutual rapport, and help,

...my core belief in my own goodness and that of others,

...the companionship and affection of my cats (Sophie passed on New Year's Eve, and I will adopt again)... and

...the sure knowledge that there are men who believe that women are smart, funny, warm, pretty, tender, strong, creative human beings who make them better men!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...whether geese have people-bumps when they are chilly
On a typical Friday night I am
...writing my memoir.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am turned on by mastery. When a man can do something well or speak eloquently about an area of expertise, something inside of me literally turns on! It is no measure of character, but it floats my boat! Oh, and I like my underwear to match! ;)
You should message me if
...you believe that a telephone call is worth the chance to find out if a coffee is worth the chance to find out if a first date is worth the chance to find out... well, you understand.

...you recognize that, beyond the initial vetting process, these profiles are a hill of beans once we discover attraction even if we are uncertain as to what substance may follow

...you have a good reason and wish to tell me about it!
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