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My self-summary
I am Bob from the NY NJ area my whole life. I am divorced for almost 12 years and seek a special relationship with that special woman. I am self employed now for over 20 years and live a steady comfortable life. I am quite happy but do seek a companion to join me in life. I am both emotionally and financially secure in my life and seek the same in a potential mate I date.
What I’m doing with my life
I have my own business which i run now for over 20 years. I enjoy travelling and going to concerts, sporting events , singing karaoke and much more. Im a big time hockey fan and have been a fan of the NY Rangers for about 45 years years. A typical weekend for me involves going to dinner with friends, going to a hockey game, a concert or comedy show. this past weekend I did in fact go to a comedy show in morristown nj. IM a subscriber there and go to lots of shows there anywhere from the Beach Boys, comedy to Weird Al Yankovic who I am also a fan of. I also have seen the moody blues there and the rock group Chicago.
I’m really good at
I am good at playing useless trivia I like to call it where i can state things about a tv show i know or a movie lines, sports trivia etc. I also have been told im a good kisser ( but thats not for me to judge i have to let my potential date decide that LOL) im also outgoing and genuinely like talking to people. I am a good bowler as i was almost a pro in my 20's. This is really a tough question to answer as i myself cant stand people who like to barg and this question is a form of that so hence why my answers are short.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile & or my eyes. My firendliness to people as when im out at a game or concert I tend to get along with whoever is sitting by me. of course i dont do this at movies as thats just rude LOL.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1. analyze this
2. theres something about mary,
3. slapshot,
4. animal house,
5. i love concerts and im a big fan of BRUCE, Billy Joel, the beach boys, the moody blues & yes im a big time Weird Al Yankovic fan. he is very talented and i have been fortunate enough to meet him.

one of my favorites was when i saw the remake of the producers. I also loved jersey boys. I dont get to as much theatre as i used to.

music.. i mentioned a few groups up above but in general i like music from the 60's, 70's & 80's and some new stuff but not as much as I did my music growing up.

food... i enjoy american, chinese, japanese steakhouses where they cook hibachi style in front of you, italian, mongolian and of course I love NJ diners which are known for being along the best in the country. I like some chains but do like a variety of food choices.
Six things I could never do without
1. my family
1a. my cat ( who is part of my family so its really 1a)
2. my health
3. my woman ( when im in a relationship)
4. sex ( everyone thinks it but not everyone says it to be honest)
5. my love of food
6. my love of going to NY Rangers games.

there is no set order here i just listed them as they popped in my head.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
living life and being happy. Id like to meet a special woman who is serious about entering into a relationship with me. I think about having long term happiness again with a special woman. I already am emotionally secure with myself. I feel you have to respect yourself before you can respect a woman you are dating.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am out at a show, concert, a comedy show, out to dinner with friends, a hockey game, singing karaoke and pretty much anything else fun including movies or even staying home watching a movie on occasion. I go away on some weekends for 1 or 2 nights away based on my availability and of course it depends if im seeing someone I spend more time with them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to sing karaoke and im not embarassed about singing in front of people.
You should message me if
you want to make a new friend and of course date a nice guy. You want to enter relationship. You are sincere and honest have a sense of humor and just enjoy life. The one problem i encounter with online dating is many women tell me they want to meet but wont give out their # or contact me. they just keep writing and not taking it to the next step. please do NOT write me unless you have a sincere interest in getting to know me better and truly have an interest in meeting even if just for coffee to see if there is anattraction in each other in person.
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