Let me speak about the elephant in the room. Yes, I am married. My wife has MS and is in a care facility outside the home. I love her but miss having someone to do things with. I enjoy dancing, going for walks, and a number of other things she is no longer able to do with me. If that is a deal breaker for you, I understand. But if you would enjoy being friends with me despite my marital status, I imagine I would enjoy it too.
I have a pet peeve about some of the questions and how people, in my case women since I rarely look at men's profiles, indicate what responses are acceptable to them. I recently responded to a question about whether I would date someone with a lot of debt. I would think that unless the person whose profile I'm looking at had a lot of debt, they wouldn't care. Is the fact that I've said I wouldn't want to date them if they were financially irresponsible a bad thing? It's not asking if I have a lot of debt. Would I date someone who does drugs? It's not asking if I do drugs. I don't. Would I participate in a rape fantasy if my partner wanted to? It doesn't ask whether I have a rape fantasy. I don't. I would have reservations about doing this. But I might be willing to do this if we discussed it and it seemed an emotionally healthy thing to do.
I have lost about 140 pounds since January of 2007. I had LapBand surgery in December of 2007. I have to buy new clothes every few months as my waist size keeps getting smaller. I have been seeing a positive impact on my heath. I am so glad I did this.
(b) National Treasure, What's up doc?, Blazing Saddles
(c) The Turtles, The Who, The Beatles, Queen
(d) Pasta, Steak, Chilli