55 Benicia, United States
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My self-summary
I am:
-thankful to those considerate enough to say "no thank you'
-tall,dark and fluffy lol...and a good kisser,muah !!
-good sense of adventure
-organized,a semi neat freak, a lil o.c.d
-have big heart, common sense , confident
-assertive yet attentive, passionate, romantic
-good with kids ,animals and the elderly gravitate to me
-a foodie ,very humorous persona. I try to see the lighter side of everything

I'm NOT:
-impressed by on line dating , these questions are ridiculous
-impressed by material possessions
-insecure ,clingy ,flaky or a liar
-one to believe the percentage ratings of this site
-a person who hides his feelings, up front
-impressed by words as much as someones actions
-into the bar scene,even though going out for a drink is ok

I'm often asked what I'm looking for. I'd like someone to see on a occasional weeknights and do fun things with on weekends. I want to be friends ,lovers and if everything meshes well between us maybe more ... Please be mentally and emotionally available, and willing to talk after a few chats on line with the intent to meet in person.
What I’m doing with my life
LIVING IT !! I'm always looking to better my future ,my glass is half full how about yours ?
I’m really good at
I'm great in the kitchen and would love to make you dinner.I love gardening and using all those fresh herbs and veggies when I make a meal .I have a good sense of taste and creativity .I also have a great set hands and use them well ,wink wink lol .I'm a true multi tasker, versatile .I dream of buying an older home ,perhaps like a Victorian fixer upper and doing most of my renovations .I've also been called "Mr.Mom" because of my domestic abilities ,kind of a neat freak ,fastideous ,making room ,organizing .I love taking nature type and scenic pictures,please look at my pictures album .I am always good for a laugh or good advise . I'm an assertive lover I enjoy taking the lead in the bedroom or where ever we play.I know that the best sex starts between the ears first !!
The first things people usually notice about me
I was recently told by a co worker that I have a very calm and relaxed demeanor that immediately puts people at ease. My peers love my out going personality .People like how witty ,outgoing and humorous i can be .I can be brutally honest but prefer to be subtle with those who appreciate it .Physically I get comments on my big eyes and my "nice deep" voice and that I look nothing like I sound . Comments on the thickness of my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1. Steinbeck, Bradbury, J.London, T.Clancy,Ian Fleming
2. R&B ,Celia Cruz ,Stevie Wonder ,Funk and most rock
3. Star Wars ,Remember the Titans ,Coming to America
4. Cats,Lion King
5.Disney Animation,Pixar,South park,Discovery channel,.P.B.S
6.Most foods I'm quite the chef and love to dabble
The six things I could never do without
1. My lovely daughter and my family
2. Love ,intimacy,human interaction
3. Nature,being outdoors and enjoying the scenery
4. Friends
5. A cutting board and a good knife ,clean kitchen
6. A good outlook on life ,any day I awaken is a good day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The welfare of my family ,my future ,my career, the shape of our world ....................WHO IS MY PRINCESS AND WHY IS SHE ALWAYS SO LATE ? What I'm going to conjure up for a delicious dinner ,
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking something delicious .Enjoying the evening with those people I love . Planning or getting ready for adventure or getting ready to hit the coast somewhere .Movies and or just relaxing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm on this site..... I'm pretty sure I was a lesbian sex slave in a prior life !! That even though my daughter is grown I still watch Sponge Bob when I can ...I do a good imitation of Squidward !!
You should message me if
If anything you've read pleases you...or you just want to have a good laugh! or the fact that I'm always game for a good chat ! NOTIFICATION: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.