56 Emeryville, United States
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My self-summary
Married, but looking for a friend, platonic or discreet. Free daytime during weekdays. I am happy just talking about books or movies or discussing issues. Possibly you desire more.

Long term face-to-face friendship is the goal. I like a woman's perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Likes: Intelligent women who challenge me and are challenging. Dark coffee with cream, thought provoking movies as well as blockbusters. Family. Teachers. Shortish hair. Ampersands. Tortelinni

Dislikes: Double parking and xenophobia. Or xenophobic double parkers.

I am tolerant, hapa, prompt, hopeful, and avuncular.
I’m really good at
Absolutely nothing. I'm sort of good at deflecting praise, giving directions, and excel spreadsheets
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm happy go lucky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: mysteries and spy novels: Alan Furst, John Sandford, James Lee Burke, Elmore Leonard (RIP), John Le Carre, Alex Berenson, Olen Steinauer, Michael Connelly.

Other titles and authors: Hop on Pop, Matterhorn, The Things that they Carried, Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Michael Chabon, Cormac McCarthy, Neal Stephenson.

Jose Saramago

Movies: American Hustle, La Grande Belleza, Searching for Sugarman, Anything by Almodovar, A Single Man, Boyhood, Roman Holiday, Winter's Bone, The Third Man, Moonrise Kingdom, Nebraska

Berkeley Rep

TV: The Daily Show, The Wire, Mad Men, Broad City, Game of Thrones, Girls

Music: Arctic Monkeys, The Killers, Oscar Peterson, Kings of Leon, Elvis Costello, White Stripes, Manu Chao, Rufus Wainwright, Radiohead, The Who, Sarah Vaughn, The Shins
The six things I could never do without
smart, witty women,
tasty food,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How a person's smile says so much about them.
Dan Savage and the concept of monogamish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Take-out from somewhere so I can just unwind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can be private & optimistic
You should message me if
You are interested in meeting a kindred spirit and/or want to make-out.
I'm free during the daytime on weekdays for walks, movies, lunches.