“What stops us from looking at ourselves and seeing ourselves is that we’re kind of ugly, if we really, if we look really hard,” Mr. Murray replied. “We’re not who we think we are. We’re not, uh we’re not as wonderful as we think we are.”
quote from interview with bill murray while being asked why he has not found the love of his life and why it appears he is not looking:
you would never know it from reading the profiles on here.......
News flash 2/15/2016: i got this funny feeling that when they came up with this category they didn't intend to be an area that you self bestow every compliment on the face of the earth upon yourself. maybe all these wonderful attributes would best be discovered and appointed by ones admirers.....just a thought.
I am definitely different, much to my contentment, Contentment is a powerful word, highly under rated. I am active mentally and physically, love to do damn near anything. got brains when they are needed, and they can sit in closet when not needed. Love food and wine, reading, building great old buildings, designing anything architectural, growing things, road trips, danish modern anything, yeah...cars, mostly old ones. Been self employed all my life, but maybe i should hit up Home Depot for a job standing around with a phone... Looking for a long term relationship, one on one, which means you actually have to spend time together, not just texting and emailing. All these questions are dumb, and its tough to keep writing....i feel like the guy in Sams Club trying to sell you another cell phone.
1/22/2015: i recently discovered a show and it was not on the discovery channel. actually its on the animal planet channel. its all about treehouse building. I have read all I can find on the subject.
Tree houses have come a long way and I will be building one as soon as this weather breaks, and it will include an elevator:)
when they ask Redford what he does...he answers "I read" Read what?? he says "everything". i can relate:)
The best way to put it is, i am very visual. If i can see it in my head, i can make it happen....most of the time:)
Also love anything Raw. Movies...yeah..i am a guy, the usual:)
obviously i have problems counting....
I get notices that woman give me 4-5 stars...but then they do not send a message. its 2013 , but they can't send an email first...go figure:)
1/22/2015: ever notice that if a person posts 4 different pictures, many times it almost looks like four different people.......kinda scary when one goes heavily on pictures.
3/1/2016: are there any black men left with hair on their head????????????
oh, and did I forget to include pictures of all my world tours, and of course I cannot live without my passport........dah
Open minded and willing to deviate from the path most traveled.
Not materialistic to the point of being shallow. Unconventional to a comfortable point. living a healthy lifestyle. off the wall sense of humor. Vulnerable in a good way.
ADDENDUM: just read something on yahoo....so it HAS to be true.
A study of divorced people showed what men felt was lacking in the marriage was touching and affection from the wife , a surprise to most....cause guys are tough...
Actually i had noticed the same thing over the years, woman just don't touch like they use to... i just don't have a big enough ego to rely on my own demographics. soooo, the moral is, please be the type that is affectionate and touchy, as now that i have company in this dilemma i have no problems asking:)