birdwithabow
26 Minneapolis, United States
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My self-summary
Nonbinary, nonmonogamous, vegan, aspiring roller derby queer seeks additional partners for dismantling systems of oppression between co-naps.

(they/them pronouns plz)

Likes: cuddles, holding hands, spending a long time getting to know someone, donuts, neo-sports, squats, admiring other people's makeup skills, fun leggings, crop-tops, giant sweaters, grocery store veggie sushi, dystopian narratives, my trans family.

Dislikes: parties, awkward pauses, society's expectations of sex, soda, football, pushups (they're so good for me tho), my own makeup skills, dysphoria, days I can't get out of bed, sports injuries, brunch spots with no vegan options, unnecessary gritty reboots, false allies.

I have a partner whom I love and with whom I co-habitate! I am looking for additional friends and partners willing to work with my schedule. Also looking for workout buddies. If you can teach me how to suck less at deadlifts, and you're not scary, please message me!

Absolutely no:
Straight people
Trump supporters
White people with dreadlocks
"Sapiosexuals" ugh.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently cooking at a co op and playing roller derby. I try to skate at least twice a week!

I love kids and want kids someday in the future, but I'm not sure if it will ever fit into my life. Right now I get my kid fix by training derby youth. I'm especially inspired by trans and queer youth - they just melt my heart!
I’m really good at
I'm really good at caring for the people who are close in my life, petting my grumpy cat in ways she will tolerate, and feeding on positive attitudes!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm enthusiastic to a dorky degree, but I have a deadpan sense of humor. Sometimes this throws people off?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I get really into a specific thing for a while and then suddenly shift interests with little warning. I used to be super into comics and cartoons but the only ones that really stuck are The Wicked and The Divine and Steven Universe.

I also read and watch sci fi and horror. Please watch bad horror movies with me.

I love Thai food, burritos, and veggie sushi, but will eat pretty much anything vegan. I love Bahn Mis!

I want the darkest beer you can find, but I usually can't drink two.
The six things I could never do without
Alone time
Stupid Facebook quizzes
Displays of affection
My roller skates
Floral pants
Chips and salsa
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My place in feminism now that I no longer identify as a woman, how to safely and effectively dismantle capitalism, how to improve my jamming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Derby practice then bed because I work at 6 am on Saturday :/
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've read all of the Twilight books... I am actually the worst feminist ever.
You should message me if
You are queer!!! I don't really respond to straight people, especially men. If your profile lists you as a straight man, I will not return your message. You should probably try messaging actual women who are actually interested in straight men. :)

You want to talk about roller derby or gay cartoons! Or meet up over almond chai! Or go running! Or talk about food systems and how to navigate adulthood with some semblance of ethics and social responsibility.

Let me take you to a roller derby bout! I'll tell you all about strategy and my zillion crushes on skaters.
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