bjen200
55 Salt Lake City, United States
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My self-summary
Thanks for checking out my profile! I consider myself a simple, down to earth, evolving guy; seeking friends, open to dating, and ultimately an LTR. I love the idea of settling down, and as a fun loving couple, to evolve and grow – spiritually, emotionally and physically. Those are all things that I work on daily by myself, so the thought of doing it with a life partner, even sounds more ideal.

I dread filling out “profiles” as I hate trying to promote myself like I am a product of an infomercial. I guess all I can do is showcase things that I love and admire in others, which at the same time are the things that I feel best describe myself. I really appreciate quick humor and wit. I am one that can laugh at anything, including at myself. Intelligence is a turn on, humility is even more attractive, spontaneity is great, and above all else, romance is huge! I do like to date, but get so exhausted with games and drama. With the right person, getting to know someone can be so much fun!

I enjoy art and design, great food, cooking, travel, exploring new cultures and cities, weekend getaways, reading, hanging with friends and family, long walks, hiking and golfing. I love movies, theater and cultural events. I actually enjoy projects around the house and yard, and being outside spending time with my dog. I strive for balance, and am working towards that, even though at the moment, my work keeps me far too busy.
What I’m doing with my life
I think we all get 'picky' as we get older and I am looking for a life partner that has solid core values, charm, wit, that is monogamous and affectionate. I like a masculine guy that takes care of himself, but is not gym obsessed. Also, someone that knows he is not perfect, and never will be...just as I do. I feel we are all works in progress, but it is the sincere efforts that really count. I think real love takes time and effort, but a couple that loves and respects each other above all else, will make it for the long haul.
I’m really good at
People tell me that I am great at being a true, trusted friend. I am good at communicating with others, but also a great listener. Also -- since I love to have good time, I can throw together a fun party in no time at all!
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know what they notice to be honest. People do comment about my eyes frequently -- so maybe that's it?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books - Kite Runner, Memoirs of a Geisha
Movies - Dangerous Liasions, The Sum of Us, Identity Theif
Music - Anything except Rap and Heavy Metal / Hard Rock
Food - Love Italian, Chinese, Mexican, Sushi and Vietnamese. Sorry Indian food -- you are my least favorite.
The six things I could never do without
1. My true friends.
2. My home - it's my sanctuary!
3. My Family and my dog.
4. Travel - There is so much more of the world yet to see.
5. Great food
6. Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why is it that gay men treat each other so poorly...
Oh, and what's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends, enjoying a well deserved cocktail, or a quiet night at home with my best buddy -- my dog, Newman.
You should message me if
You are seriously looking for something of substance. No drama, no games -- just something real, honest and you gotta wanna have fun...
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