queer (not bisexual). ftm. mixed-race, white passing--i'm aware of the complications and privilege associated with that identity.
genuine, easy-going, cat lover, loyal. overscheduled man of leisure.
i'm not afraid, apologetic or ashamed of who i am and how i live my life. nothing surprises me! i have no time for haters, judgements or mediocrity. i believe that anything that is worth doing is worth over doing.
open to dating, snuggling, and for some dirty (but very safe) times.
cookin' up storms, dancin' till the wee hours of the morning. connecting people and playing yenta. following the four agreements and becoming the master of love.
i excel in the open, honest and timely communication department.
Bonuses, I can: give a mean head massage, run gaily forward, make you feel incredible with my small but mighty hands...
music: i'll listen to almost anything (with some exceptions) that i can either dance to or sing to (even if i'm off key)
movies: goodfellas, scarface, ice pirates, anything with bette midler and dolly parton, mad max beyond thunderdome, the last unicorn, solarbabies, the apartment, hackers, foxfire (1996), old musicals (50s/60s), anything by tim burton, john waters and tarantino, the outsiders, the warriors, the way we were, the harvey girls
food: greens, bacon, uni..seriously though, i love food and i can talk about it all the time and eat it while i talk about it. there isn't anything i probably wouldn't try once.
i guess that also means created families, identity politics, queer theory, and gender re:construction. the problematic things with being a white passing mixed race queer. how people treat others or assume things about them. i think about a lot of things. go on a date with me and you'll think about some more.
dancing on a bar in hotpants, staring at the stars
you like karaoke, dancing, felines, and intrigue. and fun. please like having fun.
you understand that i am much more than this profile paints me to be.
you get that monogomy and monotony are not options for me.
you know what ftm means and respect it. you are not transphobic, homophobic, classist,sexist, or racist.