39Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
brooklyn boy to the core. made from coffee egg creams, manhattan special soda and sicilian slices.

queer (not bisexual). ftm. mixed-race, white passing--i'm aware of the complications and privilege associated with that identity.

genuine, easy-going, cat lover, loyal. overscheduled man of leisure.

i'm not afraid, apologetic or ashamed of who i am and how i live my life. nothing surprises me! i have no time for haters, judgements or mediocrity. i believe that anything that is worth doing is worth over doing.

open to dating, snuggling, and for some dirty (but very safe) times.
What I’m doing with my life
making humans look fabulous. throwing queer mixers and dance parties (see below)
cookin' up storms, dancin' till the wee hours of the morning. connecting people and playing yenta. following the four agreements and becoming the master of love.
I’m really good at
making something out of nothing at all (mostly in a cooking kind of way), makin' out. walking fast and talking faster.
i excel in the open, honest and timely communication department.
Bonuses, I can: give a mean head massage, run gaily forward, make you feel incredible with my small but mighty hands...
The first things people usually notice about me
Sparkling smile. Big......beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: anything by murakami (especially kafka on the shore), andrew vachhs' burke novels, don miguel ruiz, pema chodron, owl at home, sub rosa

music: i'll listen to almost anything (with some exceptions) that i can either dance to or sing to (even if i'm off key)

movies: goodfellas, scarface, ice pirates, anything with bette midler and dolly parton, mad max beyond thunderdome, the last unicorn, solarbabies, the apartment, hackers, foxfire (1996), old musicals (50s/60s), anything by tim burton, john waters and tarantino, the outsiders, the warriors, the way we were, the harvey girls

food: greens, bacon, uni..seriously though, i love food and i can talk about it all the time and eat it while i talk about it. there isn't anything i probably wouldn't try once.
Six things I could never do without
in no particular order:
food (this should say "good" food but that's subjective)
cuddling/make outs
also, i hate that this thing is limited to six--maybe i should change one of my answers to "more things."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what other people on the subway are listening to, mah jongg, my family and friends and how much i love them.
i guess that also means created families, identity politics, queer theory, and gender re:construction. the problematic things with being a white passing mixed race queer. how people treat others or assume things about them. i think about a lot of things. go on a date with me and you'll think about some more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Let's talk thursdays: Throwing monthly queer mixers in NYC called Select All.

dancing on a bar in hotpants, staring at the stars
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an actual encyclopedia entry.
You should message me if
you want to go on food adventures, sound walks through the city, find hidden treasures, and laugh a lot.
you like karaoke, dancing, felines, and intrigue. and fun. please like having fun.
you understand that i am much more than this profile paints me to be.
you get that monogomy and monotony are not options for me.
you know what ftm means and respect it. you are not transphobic, homophobic, classist,sexist, or racist.
The two of us