I am looking for a best pal, confidant, and lover. Let's see where we go. Right now my life is better than ever and one more addition would make it even more wonderful. An equal partnership and open communication is essential. The aura of a lover is a wonder; some spice is nice.
I value: people, honesty, simplicity, sharing, authenticity, and humor. To borrow a line from a woman, I am not a "narcissistic boy playing important." I am not pretentious. I am not materialistic. OK, I do have a very cool Subaru Forester with 165 ponies rumbling under the hood.
I am kind and empathic; polite and gentle but not overly genteel; sometimes a bit of a rough cut. Being an older kid is OK. Although I can be a little quirky (goofy?) I am also reasonably well grounded. I am monogamous and do not play games. Honesty is essential so I try to be very transparent. Ask me anything and you will get an honest reply. I tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve.
I have had a small circle of friends on the Big Island that I have known for 50 years. I try to help the world to get pointed in a better direction in some small way.
Finally, my ongoing life project is to take life as it comes and not take myself too seriously: the world does not revolve around me. No matter what happens I will be OK.
I love classical music. Dvorak is my favorite composer. Beethoven was the best although it would be a tad difficult to think of Brahms, Mozart, Bach and others as chopped liver. Jazz, oldies rock, Motown, and the blues are nice too.
My friends & colleagues
My info seems attractive to you or you want to know more about me; however, conservatives, arrogant people, selfish people, and mean people need not apply. Honesty is absolutely crucial.