32 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
- I like making lists.
- When I eat with a fork and knife, I don't put my knife down to switch with my fork.
- I like films that make you wonder who the bad guy is.
- If I were to describe myself in one word, sybaritic would be it.
- I sometimes enjoy gender normative role-reversals.
- I don't like soy sauce.
- I've decided that OKC intends for people to lose messages since they seemingly refuse to give their inbox more functionality. In short, I can lose your message even if we've been chatting. Sorry about that.
- I don't generally enjoy occupational conversations as getting-to-know-each-other material. I != my job.
- I play the swipe left/right like game when I've got time to kill. Does this mean the terrorists win?

**In mid-2013, I started a relationship with fellow adventurer, romantic, and geek extraordinaire out2munch, and for a while, we kept things traditionally monogamous. However, being consensually and consciously slutty at the core, we're starting to date others both separately and together. Caution: I think that every relationship requires that the persons involved feel special, appreciated, and valued, so my non-monogamy is a lot of things, but emotionally or intellectually casual they are not (just in case slutty was distracting).**

"Well, I believe in the soul, the cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back, the hanging curve ball, high fiber, good scotch, that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent, overrated crap. I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.”
What I’m doing with my life
Education, vulnerability, transparency, authenticity, calm, risk, exploration, joy, discomfort, pleasure, contrast, experience.

“Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride.”
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many... so recents (i.e., 90 days) at random:

Open Water Swimming Manual
Algorithms to Live By
Hunting, Butchering, & Cooking Wild Game

Dragon Blade
Kung Fu Panda 3

Criminal Minds

Sigur Rós
James Horner
Friends of Dean Martinez
Herb Alpert & The Tijuana Brass
Explosions in the Sky
Michael Giacchino
Ólafur Arnalds
Harry Gregson-Williams
Immortal Technique
Thousand Foot Krutch
Jimmie Rodgers
Billie Myers
Nothing More

fried chicken
seared chicken
butter chicken

“Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- kyriarchy
- intersectional feminism (and sometimes radfem, for education purposes)
- sexual orientation and identification
- modern/pomo identification issues
- technology: benefit vs. crutch
- degrees of dry humor
- initiative
- what "real" really means
- communication styles
- travel plans
- the meaninglessness of personal opinion
- could "for the kill" by the biting elbows be inigo montoya's theme song? ('vengeance is my business; business is doing fine')
- what's the point of a like-match if no one sends a message?