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My self-summary
Hi, I'm an asshole. I'm a silly, flighty, chick who is in love with her career and life.

I'm a career-oriented person. The last guy I dated accused me of liking my work more than I liked him. I guess he was right.

I've had this profile for so long, I wonder if it still does me justice. Perhaps I should fall in love with okCupid because it has definitely outlasted all my relationships thus far.
What I’m doing with my life
Web developer by day, game developer by night. I like programming. Right now I work.
I’m really good at
Learning new things, figuring stuff out, crunching numbers, and listening are things I am pretty damn nifty at doing. I don't know if any of those items, except for the last, will help me on a dating site. Guess I will have to wait and see.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no fucking idea. I would like to say my wonderful personality and sharp wit, others would say my rear. Totally depends on the situation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've been told that I have bad taste and I'm completely fine with that.

Rhapsody by Elizabeth Hayden is a Fave. My Side of the Mountain by Jean Craighead George is the book I read a million times as a kid.

Conspiracy Theory, Cabaret, Les Misérables, and the Fifth Element are my favorite movies.

For musical tastes, it is mostly industrial, punk, and indie. I hate listing specific genres but it is easier than going through everything. A few specific examples are Rammstein, Devotchka, Gogol Bordello (Sergey rules), Edith Piaf, Jimmy Buffett, Vive La Fête, Samael, Frédéric Chopin, Green Day, They Might Be Giants, The Cat Empire, Muse, and Stevie Wonder.

I enjoy Koran and almost anything with garlic or onions. I love food that is well/heavily spiced like Indian and Mexican. I love trying out new spices and that reflects in my cooking.
Six things I could never do without
I don't think that a person should be attached to anything really, but since this is the material world: Sustenance, good health, my ragdoll of ~23 years, REAMS of paper, tons of pencils and engaging conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How can I make what I do better? Can my code be cleaner? Can I find a better way to organize my office? Will I ever get my yellow belt in karate? Will I ever be a dancer?

Music and dancing is big in my book. I go out dancing for myself and I tend to avoid dancing with other people unless they are gorgeous (still waiting on this one) or will at least try.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays are fore Dungeons and Dragons, Saturdays I go out. I may be at a bar, wandering around town, or finishing up a project at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can live without my cell phone and I often forget where I put it. If it wasn't for solitaire and Pandora, I probably wouldn't use it daily. Despite working with technology, I don't live a high tech, highly connected life.

I adore brunettes, there is something illogical about the way that a man's hair color can blindside me.

When I am working too hard on a project, I start having awful dreams that are nothing but a screen with code on it and a command prompt blinking in the darkness.

My hair is actually curly right now.
You should message me if
DO NOT start your message with 'Hi Beautiful', 'Hi Sweetheart', 'Hi Gorgeous', 'Hi Love', or anything like that. I see it as a red flag and my reply will probably be 'No'. I've seen it so much on this site that it is a huge red flag that screams 'I see you have tits, you should show them to me'.

If the adjectives deliberate, analytical and ambitious apply to you, then that is a good sign. If my personality intrigues you as well as my looks, that helps too. If you love wandering around and having adventures, then maybe you should shoot me a message.

Also if you have hair. If you're bald, you better be pretty damn awesome to make up for it.

Please, save us both some time and look at the portion of my profile that compares the two of us. This helps to discern our compatibility. If our match scores are less than 50% we WON'T get along--just a thought. Also, using proper structure in your message gets you bonus points.

The two of us