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My self-summary
I wonder, does anyone actually READ the profile? I can't see you if you 'want to meet me'.

*** I appreciate the 'likes, hellos and want to meet me', but would rather hear what you think our common interests are. This is VERY important to hear if you'd like me to respond back to you. On this site, I get notes that say: x 'wants to meet me', but I cannot see you or your profile to see about shared interests, so if you'd like me to talk to you, please send a note telling me what has heart and meaning for you. Thanks so much! :)

I will answer your emails if the questions or statements are appropriate to a conversation and if you have a photo posted so I can see your beautiful face and see your eyes.

Ideally, to see the sacred in each other is my intention. My Spirituality (not Religion) is a priority in my life! :)

Are you open to sharing your feelings? Do you feel this is a strength or a weakness? Do you want an intimate connection?

My Ideal Partner: One who loves himself and others unconditionally. He is kind, gentle, funny, generous, adventurous, inspiring and is vulnerable.
He is one who is also physically fit, confident and likes to hold hands, hold me in warm embraces and snuggle. There is no drama in my life. I enjoy a sweet, comfortable, happy, calm life and look forward to more adventures (with my Partner).

I am kind, loving, patient and generous. I am a strong, confident woman who enjoys deep conversations on the meaning of life and our relationship. If this attracts you, we have common interests. I'm financially secure and have high integrity and desire the same in my partner. I'm very honest and value that quality in my partner.

Can you understand "True Marriage" by Gangaji? If so, we have a deep connection. Please tell me how you think we are aligned when you write. This is important.
What I’m doing with my life
I appreciate learning and growing and deepening in the exploration of mySelf, photography, wine tasting, jazz, theater, traveling around the world (and close-by), hiking in the mountains, lakes and hills, and pretty much anything outdoors. I love massages!

June and July is pretty exciting. Soccer matches abound! Copa America and UEFA. This makes me happy. If I'm neutral on the countries playing, I prefer a clean playing club.

Hawaii is a no brainier...I always love visiting there. Italy and Ireland are also favorites. I've never been to France and would like to see that countryside and explore Paris. I'm open to traveling most places. I'm curious. I'm also open to sharing what places you love.
I’m really good at
Seeing the whole person and listening well. Trusting and loving unconditionally.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm comfortable in my own skin. I'm a good listener, so I'm quiet at first. Then what they notice is my smile and friendly personality.

(FYI: an interesting read that is accurate for on-line dating).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite authors: LOTS! I tend to read books on higher consciousness.

Eckhart Tolle. (If you connect with A NEW EARTH , we'll likely connect. I also loved LOVEABILITY by Robert Holden and everything by Harville Hendrix. GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT comes to mind)
James Hollis writes beautifully on relationships.

I love plays, movies (not violent) ones that make me laugh and fun movies. Have some you can recommend?
The six things I could never do without
loving: my children, grandbabies and friends; Spirituality, (it's not religion); appreciation; gratitude; my health.

A commitment to personally growing and evolving is a very important part of my present and my future. Please let me know in an email if you think we are a match in this venue. It's how I live my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much I appreciate my life. How to release judgments... and loving unconditionally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching a movie, play, speaker, band, party or sitting quietly and peacefully at home listening to 'quiet' music and / or watching a recorded show or cooking with my that you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am authentic. I have no secrets…

... I feel awkward with this whole online dating thing but I really long for a partner that I can play and grow with.
You should message me if are gentle, romantic, loving; confident, open to looking within to find your own happiness and not looking for it outside of yourself, and are willing to heal unresolved issues. Above all someone who is into living your best life!
If you do not post a photo, do not expect to hear back from me…it's part of taking that first step to being vulnerable.

I do not enjoy talking politics or strong, angry, rough personalities or men who tend to be loud or ego-led.

And I have a question: why are you 20 and 30 something's looking at my profile and emailing me? I just don't get it. It's not gonna happen.

(Unfortunately, I'm highly allergic to cats. It's down to them or me.)