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My self-summary
I’m 50, black, 5'9'' 170lbs, mostly a homebody and am seeking someone to not just be friends with but also to eventually become serious about
I like reading science fiction and military watching movies (especially cuddling with a special someone)/hobbies - I play chess a little, am trying to learn to play poker, a few computer and X box 360 rpg games, listen to mostly 70's and 80's music (I just don’t really like the modern hip-hop /rap thing. I love beautiful music, some acoustic guitar, lyrics that have meaning and feeling.
I just tend to be very passionate about the person I'm with. I don't try to change who they are or change who I am (unless it's for the betterment of me as a person, not just as a partner to fit their needs) Just trying to find someone who shares the same passion about things, and who's life will mesh with mine. I believe there’s nothing wrong in feeling more alive because someone is my everything!
What I’m doing with my life
Good Question!
I'm in the process of changeing from who I was into someone a bit more ME.I was a father...supposed partner,but due to alot of compromising, forgor or at least gotten out of being who ever I am.I not only intend to change that, but am seeking a new,true partner for this road I'm to travel.
I’m really good at
Listening,compromising,solving problems.
Not really a maker...more an appreciator.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've really got no idea!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav movies:
My Favorite Year
You’ve Got Mail(and it’s original The Shop Around the Corner)
The Princess Bride
Cyrano de Bergerac(the Jose Ferrer and Steve Martin Versions Only)
A Star Is Born(with Barbra Streisand and Kris Kristfferson)
Love Story(exspecally the Theme from Love Story by Francis Lai)
The Six String Samurai

Fav Music:
Pink Floyd / Jean Michelle Jarre
Elton John / Eryaka Badu
Heart / Dire Straights
Mike Oldfield / Cruxshadow
Supertramp / Jean Luc Ponty
And more recently:
Blank and Jones / Alan Parsons
Gorillaz / DJ Earworm
Ronald Jenkees / Pretty Lights
Eminem / The Red Elvises
Nuttin but Strings and Little People

Fav Books or rather Authors
Issac Asimov / Lois McMaster Boujold / Gorden Dickson /David Drake / Eric Flint / Robert Heinlein / Mercedes Lackey / L.E. Modesitt / Elizabeth Moon / Terry Pratchett / John Ringo /
and John Scalzi

The Foundation Seeries / The Vorkosigan Series / The Dorsai Stories / Hammers Slammers / The Ring of Fire Series / Paladin of Shadows Series - Into the Looking gLASS - The Alderata Books - Special Circumstance - Troy Rising
After Earth / Red Shirts / 1635 / World War Z

Fav Foods: Oriental / Italian / Seafood 'specally
shrimp and mussles
Mushrooms(just regular sliced ones)
Grape Soda, ALL Choclate's, Tea(more so
than coffee,tho it also,)Peppermint and
Cinnamond, Hot Chips, STEAK!!!
Six things I could never do without
The Beauty of Women
the Warmth of Smiles and the Softness of Hug's
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Believing in being in love? Have you ever? What makes one feel cherished, pursued, and known?
Please tell me that there are women out there who actually WANT to be treated like they are the only thing that matters in a guy's world? Women who want guys to be there for them 100%, whenever they need it. Woman who want a trustworthy guy who feels lucky to be with them and sees nothing else when they see them across the room. I know a lot of this might sound over the top or clingy, but I assure you I don't mean to be clingy.
I'm just getting discouraged about how hard it is to find a good woman who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them. It's getting hard to give so much without getting much in return, sometimes it makes me feel like I have nothing left.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wishing I was cuddled with someone
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I dislike people as a group
but I need at least one
to share all that I am and to
be a part of.
You should message me if
If you could made a promise, and truly did abide
If I could trust you with my heart, and you never lie
If you'd accept a flower, just because I cared
If you listened to my feelings, not make fun because I shared
If you could become my favorite flower?
If I give you a say, and truly shared the power
If I wrote you a poem, and you can tell me how it makes you feel
If you showed me everyday, so what I wrote ,for you too ,is true
If we can kiss with passion, out for all to see
If you seek to tell someone, I love you, and meant it honestly
If you'd hold me close, never wanting to let go
If you would touch me,missing me, just to let me know
If you'd nursed me back to health, when I feeling ill
If you'd claim my heart, after all the tears I've spilled
If you could look in my eyes, and think maybe I'm the one
If you picked up my pieces, when I come undone
If you listened to all my words, let the untrue ones slide
If you'd believe that I do, truly, do try
If you'd do all these things, and offered a heart that's true
Would you go out with me, if I wanted you to?
The two of us