48New Orleans, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I most enjoy life when I am making art, writing,gardening, reading, cooking or hanging out with good friends.

What I am really looking for is someone that wants to hang out, watch movies and have sex. No drama, no heavy drinking, no games. Just good times and sharing energy. Honesty. Fun!

I'm pierced and tattooed, but those are not what define me. I
consider myself a freak because I think for myself; most
people let others and other things define them: I define myself
from myself. I am always becoming.

I have my own spirituality. I've studied many different forms of
spirituality but take no one thing in absolute, except for the
energy that exists that I analyze, play with, nurture, take or
give. I consider myself Buddhist.

One way to tell a lot about a person is what they talk about. I'm not interested in someone who gossips constantly, talks on and on about who did what with who and why so-and-so is a bitch. That is the best way to annoy me. If you can talk about ideas, books you've read, art, or cooking you and I will get along splendidly, no matter what OkCupid says. If you're into sports and popular music my interest is gone.

I am NOT sexually attracted to men, overly overweight women, or butch women.

I am fairly quiet and somewhat shy until you get to know me. I am unafraid to say what I think but often don't think to say what I should until it comes up. I am aggressive in my own life and people take me seriously because I am forthright.

I am intense, perverted, and creative.
What I’m doing with my life
I am always working on a myriad of art projects. I am a full-time artist. You can see my work at

I am currently attending the Academy of Art University, towards my Bachelor's in Fine Art-Painting and Drawing.

I no longer drink but am not judgmental regarding others drinking. As long as you don't sloppy, yo!
I’m really good at
Drawing, art, cooking, and making the wrong people comfortable and the right people uncomfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
Are my eyes. My dreadlocks. I am very much an individual, conforming to no group of preconceived set of ideas. People often describe me as the tall, intense woman with long black dreads. I look taller than I am because I am thin. The tats and piercings are only a small part of what I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a) Authors: William Gibson, Sarah Waters, Jeanette Winterson, Albert Camus, Poe, Jean-Paul Sartre, Lewis Carroll, Nietzsche, Philip K. Dick, Cormac McCarthy, Phillip Pullman, C. S. Friedman, Frank Herbert

b) 12 Monkeys, Atonement, Being John Malkovich, But I'm A Cheerleader, Dune, Clash of the Titans, May, Dark City, Blade Runner, The Hunger, Lair of the White Worm, City of Lost Children, Delicatessen, Donnie Darko, Factory Girl, Fifth Element, Fight Club, Freida, Fur, Hannibal, I, Robot, La Cage aux Folles The Libertine, M, Mirrormask, Morvern Callar, Night Watch, 9th Gate, Oldboy, One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest, Opera, Perfume, Pi, The Pianist, Planet of the Apes, Quills, Rushmore, A Scanner Darkly, The Secretary, Shaun of the Dead, The Shining, Suspiria, Tipping the Velvet, Trainspotting, Videodrome, .

c) long list... Have finally gotten tired of the old goth/industrial stuff, though I still love Gary Numan, Nick Cave, Tom Waits, Xymox, Cat Power, Legendary Pink Dots, Nurse With Wound, PJ Harvey, Sisters of Mercy, Siouxsie & the Banshees, Suzanne Vega, Tones On Tail, Vangelis...

d) avocados, asparagus, pineapple, raspberries, garlic, dark chocolate, eggs, corn chips.
Six things I could never do without
My art, books, cats, my friends, sex and individuality.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mostly, I think about art. I look at the colors and shadows and shapes and light that make up the world and put beauty and pain into canvas.

I'm also often rewriting my philosophy of life. I am always striving towards evaluating and improving myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
In the middle of an art project. Inviting people over for food. I spend much of my time painting, studying art, and reading.

What I am really looking for is someone that wants to hang out, watch movies, do fun stuff and have sex. No drama, no heavy drinking, no games. Just good times and sharing energy. Honesty. Fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy BDSM, in particular the S&M aspects as well as D&S. I do have particular and not very common fetishes (which I will not list on here!).

In my ideal relationship I'd love to have a play partner in BDSM but it's certainly not necessary.
You should message me if
You're a freak of some sort, like to read, and don't mind intense people. You've learned to think for yourself. You are femme.

If you're a guy and you don't know me then messaging me will only annoy me.

If you read my profile and think you might be interested. Most of the stuff I wrote below won't matter if you are interested in just being friends. Which is always cool. However if you are a guy and think you have a chance then you should go fuck yourself, 'cause I won't. And hetero couples. Really. Why would I be interested? Please.

First, this all might sound like I'm full of myself but if you can't say what you want then you won't get it.

I am ONLY sexually attracted to women. I don't have a preference for any particular ethnicity. I have a particular thing for young (but mature) women though they seem to never have any idea of what they want and tend to be too flighty and irresponsible.

But that's in a perfect world which, last I checked, I don't live in. Intellectually stimulating women are incredibly hot. You should have some psychic and/or spiritual base. Femme women are what really turns me on. Organized religions/cults piss me off and have nothing to do with spirituality. You should be mentally stable. (Medicated is fine.) If you are a drama queen you need not apply.

Similar musical leanings are also a big plus. If we can hang out and listen to good music then great!

I know what I want from life, including what I want in a potential partner. It helps if you know this too. But if you just want someone to hang out with and have sex with, count me in!
The two of us