33 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
I love living in San Francisco, but I'm in the Castro, and not really finding dates where I live... so I'm here! I work as a nurse in a busy community health center. At the end of the day, I'm looking for someone to kick back with, wind down, and forget the stress of the day.

I'm originally from the east coast, near Boston, and I miss Dunkin Donuts coffee, apple orchards, and fall leaves-- but I don't miss the ice and snow-- and I'm absolutely loving SF!

I'm looking for someone that has a passion for music, even if it's not my favorite bands or genres (which are metal, industrial, and hard rock... such as Pearl Jam, Queens of the Stoneage, Fear Factory, Ministry, Tool). I'm a big concert junkie and thrive off of live music. Lately, most of my excuses for traveling to new cities also involve a chance to catch an amazing concert. And with traveling, my favorite way to explore any city is to hit the pavement and walk it.

Most people comment on my smile. I'm generally a happy, optimistic, even bubbly person. But I'm not afraid to embrace what some might call the "darker side" of life, as I love metal and industrial music, fetish/goth events, and gorey horror films.

In a partner- intelligence, an open mind, adventure, and passion for life are important to me. At this point in my life, I'm having fun meeting new people and dating. Though, I'm definitely ready for something more long-term if the right person came along! I've been monogamous and happy, and I've had open relationships and have been happy. (HAPPY is the key important word, all else is negotiable).
What I’m doing with my life
Finally, after years and years of school, I'm no longer a student. It's a strange feeling. I'm currently working full time, but still hunting for my dream job working in sexual health with women and teens. And trying to find pearls of happiness every day.
I’m really good at
I feel like I'm at a job interview with this question... multitasking like crazy at work! Keeping sane and calm under pressure. Communication and not ever being that couple that is constantly nagging or fighting in their relationships (I've never understood that)
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, my smile, and how short I am
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: anything by Chuck Palahniuk, serial killer/crime books
like Lee Child's Reacher novels, and I collect old books from the late 1800s and early 1900s related to sexuality (there was some scary stuff published!).
movies: Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Waynes World, Natural Born Killers, Kill Bill, Singles, anything directed by David Lynch or Tarantino
music: industrial, metal, or hard rock... though I'm a grunge lover at heart (pearl jam, nirvana), I also love Mark Lanegan, Ministry, Tool, Devil Driver, Gojira, NIN, OhGr, Fear Factory, Skinny Puppy.
Foods: Italian and Japanese are my favs.. oh and anything with blueberries
The six things I could never do without
Music, the internet, Doc Marten boots, blueberries, contacts or glasses (I have pretty bad vision without 'em), and my brain
On a typical Friday night I am
At a bar with friends, out at a concert, relaxing to horrible netflix, or out seeking adventure in this wonderful city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmm... I'm a pretty open person about anything- just ask!
You should message me if
You don't smoke, have a passion for music (of some kind!), and you can hold an intelligent conversation.