bmekl
49 Jamaica Plain, United States
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My self-summary
A map isn't the terrain and a self summary is woefully inept at capturing the essence of who one is but here is my feeble attempt.
I believe in honor, loyalty, respect, compassion and trying to live by the Golden rule. I have little tolerance for stupidity, hatred, greed or the inability to make judgments because all behaviors are deemed acceptable. I do my best to help out my friends, family and the world in general and am made happy when those I love succeed. I do my best to count my blessings and not dwell on my problems. I love live music, good food, quite times with my friends or pets, breaking a sweat during a good workout, the smell and look of a good fire, the crisp Autumn air and the sound of surf at the beach. The world looks better from horseback and all things would be better if I can just find that special woman whom I can't wait to wake up next to. I can generally find humor in most situations, even the most inappropriate one's and I find that my cynicism is constantly at war with my hopefulness.

I am honest, loyal, and witty
What I’m doing with my life
I make my living healing others as a bodyworker/PT and feel blessed to LOVE my career. I also run a family business in another state. I am a long time martial artist and am constantly trying to improve my skills both along those lines and with regard to my healing practice. I've been to India 3 times in the last 4 years to teach at a school for impoverished children outside of Bangalore and I can not wait to return again. I'm also trying to see as much amazing music as I can and travel all over Asia.
I’m really good at
Massages/removing people's pain with my hands, listening, interacting with animals, martial arts and helping others.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes and my towering height :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Way too many to name but let's just say I primarily read Sci Fi and Fantasy for the escape and textbooks, etc. for continue to expand my professional knowledge.

Movies: Again, far too many to name.

Music: moe, RUSH, jambands, Classic Rock, Jazz Fusion, ska, regae, FUNK! Basically anything but country-western and opera

Food: If it walks, flies, swims or crawls I'll eat it and love it. I couldn't do without ethnic cuisine, garlic and the chili pepper.
The six things I could never do without
Music, friends, pets, great food, sleep, my health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Healing, music, martial arts, the state of the world/politics, spirituality, and women
On a typical Friday night I am
At my dojo training as has been the case for the last 15 years.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My brother and I have been passing the same birthday card back and forth between us for 20 years.
You should message me if
If you found what I wrote interesting, have an interest in food, travel and Asia and are looking for a meaningful relationship. If you’re very socially conservative, smoke or deeply religious in a Judeo-Christian sense we will most likely not get along. Mutual attraction is an essential ingredient in any relationship. This is simple truth.
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