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My self-summary
I am often described as very out going and fun loving. In ten words or less: EVIL! Thrill seeking, Passionate, Loyal (sometimes to a fault) & Carefree.
Hobbies include sports and anything to do with them. Very active, always looking for buddies to play hard. Love a night home over a board game or video game, pizza, good music and great conversation.
I like to read (fantasy, horror and techno thillers) and am exploring my creative side again with painting. With the rest of my spare time I play video games, enjoy movies & concerts.
I'm looking for friends and whatever comes after that, comes.
I like sitting and talking, but like to get more and more active the older I get. Love intelligent converstaion most of the time, love sitting in a dark room alone sometimes, love watching B-movies and talking about pop culture quite a bit, too.
PS I AM NOT AS VANILLA AS I look. I love to talk to new people, shoot me an IM on Yahoo to redd4it32 or even on AOL at boblee77
If you are open, intelligent, giving, easy going and fun loving. I'd love to hear from you! Friends who are poly, into reading and movies--and possibly lovers of the same type, eventually! :)
Into everything from walking on the beach (squishy sand between my toes), flag football on a rainy day (messy isn't a bad thing), strolling through a museum (love the smell of art), window shopping for the perfect doo dads and accessories (Yes, I am a guy who loves to shop!) and sharing a brew and chicken wings on Monday Night (What happened to the XFL?)
I'm open to just about whatever sort of relationship that I can find -- from just talking online to finding somebody else to hang with/date. I want to find some compatible people with whom I can also express my joys and hardships regarding life with. Is that fair? Perhaps not...still, looking to try.
I'm looking for fun people, interested in friendship, exploring life, playing and pleasure - who cares about labels. Seeking friendships that can grow into loving relationships - across the world or around the corner.

So I Figured I would go ahead and add an edit into here.

While yes I am a married male, I am also Polyamourus, which for those of you that don't know means that we believe that you can love and have a relationship with more then just one person. It is only societies beliefs that state for you to love someone else you need to stop loving the one you are with.
Granted that does not mean that I just sleep around.....wait I am a guy, maybe that is what it means. lol. Oh and in case it wasn't obvious yeah I like women of all shapes and flavors, you were made to have curves for a reason.... to draw our attention.

What I am ideally looking for is thus: I am looking for a partner in crime, someone who loves roller coasters, wild and crazy things and has an ecceltic (sp?? edit anyone) taste in music.

I am a fan of ICP and their Family, i.e Twisted, Blaze, Dark Lotus, and plan on hitting The Gathering one of these days, and will be needing someone to spend a mud fueled crazy week getting down with the music, and well me as well. So if you know of any good Jugglette's out that, "hit me up".

This part is just the random thoughts and ramblings of a mad man with nothing better to do then fill this space with idle internal/external chit chat.

Look I know I am a little out there and have a varied and socially unexceptable style about me but damn it, it;s who I am Like it, Leave it, or whatever, but do not Judge.

And Yes I am trying to get this section up to 1000 words, this is going to be harder then I thought. lol. I am always looking for friends, FWB, and just about anything in between. All I ask is that you give me a shot. Hell you never know just what I am really Like until you try.

Plus being an ex Video Game Store Manager, I have a certain Affinity to Hanging out and Playing Video Games till the wee hours of the morning. I mean really who doesn't love drunken Rock Band, Guiter Hero parties.

Honestly my life is an open book. all you need to do is open it and start reading. You can ask me anything and I will answer. No questions are out of bounds, as I like to say the worst that could happen is I will say no, or tell you I would rather not answer. There are a ton of worse things that could be said, but it is all about the inflection of how they are said, the basic meaning and premise are still the same. Or do you not agree with my self sustaining statement. These last few paragraphs are really just filler and mindless ramblings.

These last few paragraphs have been brought to you by the letter 7. and Kreemit the Frog here.

Wanna Freebase...No Pac Man Drugs are bad... Pussies.
(do you know where those 2 quotes are from.

Only 3 Words Left.

Yes over a 1000.

We now return you to your previously scheduled programming.

If you are still here after all that, you deserve a medal, or at least my gratitude. You so need to contact me, and either tell me off, or well, lets see what happens.

I am honest, evil, and poly
What I’m doing with my life
Honstly just hanging out, trying to find friends and others to either hang with, relax with , or build stronger relationships with.
Update: I am just waiting now for the Little League to update me as to when I can begin formal practices for the team, I am coaching... yeah I know all the cliches of "those who can't do, teach". But I enjoy showing a new generation of kids how to play the game correctly, just like I was shown. As well as working, and trying to keep from going stir crazy at times.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look like someone they recognize, and they are probably right, I've had a few jobs where people saw a lot of me.

Or that I am short and a little round.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like any books with pictures in it.

I love to read... basicly whatever is around.
Plus yes I do read Playboy and Maxim for the articles

I am a fan of ICP and their Family, i.e Twisted, Blaze, Dark Lotus, and plan on hitting The Gathering one of these days, and will be needing someone to spend a mud fueled crazy week getting down with the music, and well me as well. So if you know of any good Jugglette's out that, "hit me up".

ok here goes a random sampling from my iTouch:

Adele, AFI, ThEe Airborne toxic Event, Andrew Lloyd Webber, Andriod Lust, Asa, Astroslut, Augustana, Band of Horses, Band of Skulls, Beatsie Boys, Ben Harper, Bif Naked, The Bird and the Bee,Bob Dylan, Boy Hits Car,Brett Dennen, Cage the Elephant, CSS, The Cure, Dido, Dierks Bentley, The Donnas, Enya, Erasure, Clapton, Eric Hutchinson, Everclear, Finger Eleven, The Fratellis, Frou, Frou, Gabriella Cilmi, Garbage, Godsmack, Good Charlotte, Green Day, Hellogoodbye, Ice Cube, Ingrid Michaelson, Jessica Riddle, Jack of Jill, The Juan MacLean, Kate Nash, Katy Perry, Kay Hanley, Kimya Dawson, Kittie, Lady Sovereign, Len, Letters To Cleo, Lily Allen, Lords of Acid, Los Campesinos, Marilyn Manson, Matisyahu, Matt Hathanson, MC Yogi, Ministry, Mirah, Modest Mouse, Moldy Peaches, Neko Casee, Nickelback, Narcotic Syntax, Oasis, OPM, Pepper, Peter Bjorn and John, Belle and Sebastian, Pink, Plaetakis, Play Dead, The Postal Service, Rasputina, Rebecca Nurse, She Eats Planets, Spek, The Ting Tings Tomer Yosef, Turisas, Voltaire, Amanda Palmer, Dressdon Dolls, V Shaped Mind, Clutch, The Weepies, ZO2, The Zutons
Other Music I like includes Bloodhound Gang, Stephen Lynch, BNL, Classic Rap, ie Mos Def, Twalib Kwali, Black Starr, Run DMC, and the like. It is hard to really express what I like. I enjoy Blue October, Fleet Foxes, Grizzly Bear , Vampire Weekend, Antony and the Imperials, MSI, Cannibal Corpse, Killswitch Engage, Hatebreed, Him, SwitchBlade Sympony, into Music that they would play at Club Hell in Providence, dark industrial noize, Souixe and the Banshees, Depeche Mode.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to figure out how to get people to realize differences and perversion is not always a bad thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
attempting to get some people over to hang out and play rock band till the wee hours, well that and drinking as well. Lately been going out with my 2 brothers trolling the bars, just for people who look cool and we can hang with. granted nothing wrong with some "single use friends" bonus points if you know where that is from.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am just an open book all you really have to do is ask.
You should message me if
I tickle your fancy, or just wanna say hi.
The two of us