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My self-summary
I'm a crafty, musically inclined, artistic, vegetarian, wanna-be jack-of-all trades, martial artist, life-long student and educator. (I think that sums up enough to give a picture). I'm a bit shy, but i will open up. I am honest, kind-hearted, and stubborn.

I enjoy movies in moderation, but especially love to craft and play board or card games, talk, cuddle. Want to cook a meal together? Play a game? Talk? Go on a walk or hike? Listen to NPR? Sing or play music?

I'm looking for casual dates, hook-ups, make-out or cuddle buddies, but definitely open to something longer lasting if the connection is there. I've been on the move this year, traveling traveling traveling, but have been trying to make Philly more of a home base. It's an exciting time in my life, but Im not having much luck meeting people...And my travels are leaving me a bit lonely.

I am a transgender man, so if you are not into that, that's cool. I just like to be up front about that to avoid any awkwardness later. And, while I do say I'm "single" , that is a questionable way to describe me and all of that. Questions welcome.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am self-employed, traveling a lot, and it feels incredibly satisfying, but due to always being on the go, I am missing out on physical contact and intimate connections with people. I am a lighting artist for a Eurythmy ensemble, a musician (mostly singing and some piano with a bit of guitar), picking up odd jobs as they come towards me.

I spend a lot of time looking at and admiring the trees as well as my fellow human beings.
I’m really good at
things involving the use of my hands: shoulder rubs, sign language, origami, crafts of all sorts (sewing, knitting, crochetting, etc), playing instruments, painting, drawing, boot blacking, doing dishes, cleaning

Finding things that are lost.

The first things people usually notice about me
I'm super kind, thoughtful and helpful. I'm always mistaken for younger than I am.

I actually don't really know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
sci-fi books and movies and tv shows. anne mcCaffery, ursula le guin are two of my favorite authors. Don't watch much TV these days.

I love singing music of all sorts, balkan and georgian music, shape note music.

I can listen to Jeff Buckley for hours.

I love pesto, (basil makes its way into everything I cook...), but I think my top food choice is pizza. YUM! But I am always up for some good Indian food. Yum yum!
Six things I could never do without
nutritional yeast
clean underwear/socks
martial arts
my hands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
human beings. threefold social order. reincarnation

What I'm doing with my life

How to actually meet people
On a typical Friday night I am
Studying, playing the piano, being artistic, dancing, sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been told I sometimes come on too strong. I'm just very exuberant at living in the moment, and appreciating life. My enthusiasm comes across a bit too intense for some people. I like to live life to the fullest. It's hard to know how much time we all have left so I want to make the most of it!
You should message me if
any of the following apply:

You are awesome.
You like having/meeting queer friends.
You are drama free.
You like crafts.
You like playing instruments/singing with others.
You like to go to the movies.
You like to spend time in nature.
You like to climb trees.
You recycle.
You are a vegetarian or friendly.
You like to play board/card games.
You like to write letters.
The two of us