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My self-summary
Hi there! In the spirit of full disclosure, I am in an open/poly relationship with an awesome guy. We are in an exploration mode, and I thought I would give OkCupid a shot.

I tend to be shy, but once comfortable and definitely after a glass of wine or two, I open up...and sometimes can't stop.

I am on the geekier side and love anything Joss Whedon has ever touched.

I am a huge Caps fan, who is dying this season. Sometimes I sadly chant to myself, "C-A-P-S"....
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a tech nerd working for a nonprofit by day. By night, I take part in a team sport two nights a week, and try to entertain myself the other nights.
I’m really good at
darts, brewing beer and generally being ridiculous.
The first things people usually notice about me
I used to think my hair since it was super long, huge and curly. Was because it is now in a short pixie.

Now, I'll have to go with smile.

Or perhaps trying to figure out my ethnic background and how my unique name is spelled.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I feel I should enter something more intellectual than the Belgariad, but it's what I am reading right now, and it is on the brain. I will say though, my favorite book is Blue Highways. I can read that book multiple times a year, and do.
Comics: Fables, The Unwritten, Buffy Season 9, and Fairest
Shows: Gilmore Girls, Project Runway, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Firefly, IT Crowd, Eureka, Battlestar Galactica, Always Sunny
Music: Decemberists, Tori Amos, Neko Case, Belle and Sebastian
Food: Everything
Movies: Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Before Sunrise/Sunset, anything Muppets. Plus a huge MST3K and RiffTrax fan.
Six things I could never do without
-My boy
-My kitties
-My awesome new computer
-My passport
-My kindle
Yes, just 5, I know. I can't think of a 6th!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
so much is flying through there all time. I do tend to see things through a gender lens and that frames many of my thoughts. And social contract.

On the lighter side, the BSG finale tends to be a big topic of conversation after drinks.
On a typical Friday night I am
Normally relaxing with friends, and wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like playing Magic: the Gathering. I also have something private pierced.
You should message me if
you know all the words to the Once More, with Feeling episode. Dr. Horrible would also be acceptable.

Or would like to hear more of my love tribe theory.
The two of us