55Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
I listen well. I'm funny, in an ironic, Brit kinda way, as befitting my nationality. I cry when I laugh really hard. I love language and the books it comes in, seeing the world anew through my photography and acting on the belief that another world is not only necessary, but possible. I have traveled a lot and enjoy the journey. I want more intimacy in my life; to spend time with someone with whom I feel a deep connection.

I am curious, strong, and minty
What I’m doing with my life
Finishing my PhD, and enjoying the photography and video work that goes with that. Sipping martinis, walking NYC, orienting around working on my intention to fulfill my commitment to get to the gym a little more regularly.
I’m really good at
Shaving my head
The first things people usually notice about me
After the baldness, the blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Middlemarch for its wisdom, Remainder for its cleverness, Attwood for her precision, Ishiguro for his virtuosity, Deleuze for his brilliance, every scene of the Office (brit version), the opening scenes of Lebowski, the perfection of Chinatown, the Eden of Everything But the Girl, Underworld (no, not the movies), Neil Young, the Stranglers, the Cure, bacon sandwiches (brit version), lazy brunches, brussels sprouts crisp to the bite, fruit pies under thick custard, martini-soaked olives - I could go on...
Six things I could never do without
lists, my local produce store, quirky announcements from subway drivers, sun on snow, a loving caress, freshly ground coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the ills of the world, the beauty around me, and the space in-between
On a typical Friday night I am
where I want to be
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It has taken a while to come to terms with the fact that I am back online, dating
You should message me if
you're curious as well and would like to talk
The two of us