30โ€ขClementon, United States
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My self-summary
Jersey Girl raised an only child. I'm very close to my mom as a result and can have quite a good time all by my I love small gatherings and spending time with family and friends. Not your average 29 year old female, my television go-to's are HGTV, Food Network, NFL Network, and any Golden Girls and/or Good Times reruns I catch, I'm glued. I enjoy red wine, but cheat with Hennessy & cranberry if a cocktail is I'll take being home over a club any day. On the contrary, I love to travel. Been all across the country. Off American soil, I've only been to the Caribbean, Canada, and Dubai. Scheduled for Paris in December and looking to travel to a few more countries prior to starting a family.
I have a thing for fine dining but enjoy cooking for myself and others. Great sense of humor, I'm usually the clown in the room!
I'm a football fanatic, my team is the Pittsburgh Steelers. Yankee and Celtics fan, I guess NJ Devils since it's the only damn team we have

Not that all of these things are super important, but because I'm asked so frequently I'm just going to volunteer the info here...
I live alone, I pay all my own bills, I have a reliable car, I have no children, my credit score is descent, the locs are faux and yes my real hair is long and edges are in tact....lmao. Y'all are so shallow, but I hope I make the cut ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„
What Iโ€™m doing with my life
I have a Bachelors in Hotel, Restaurant, and Tourism Management. I'm a Director of Revenue for a hospitality company in Philadelphia.
Building my brand and promoting social consciousness.
In Kick Boxing classes trying to find my 4 pack, I lost her at Houlihans and my Aunt Pat's sweet potato pie is making it difficult to find ๐Ÿ™ˆ
Iโ€™m really good at
Cooking and baking. I make a great rum cake!
Fixing things
Playing spades
Social debates
Networking and making conversation with people I don't know
* I'm the Jack of all trades, and the master at plenty!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and that I smell good ๐Ÿ˜
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
*Love documentaries! 13th is at the top!
* Movies: Harlem Nights, Hangover 1&2, Ted 1&2, 300, Transformers, Fast & Furious Collection, and Hidden Figures.
* Favorite shows: The Get Down, Luke Cage, Empire, Scandal, Suits, The Blacklist, Being MaryJane, Newsroom, Billions, and Boondocks.
* The New Jim Crow is one of my favorite books.
* I listen to all genres of music. But my favorite is 90s hip-hop and R&B.
* I love West Indian, South India, Soul Food, an authentic crab cake, and my mom's chili! I'm also quite sure I'm addicted to
Six things I could never do without
Clean Water
*I think this category deserves a bonus listing and I choose RED WINE!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
* Hacking into Sallie Mae's system to clear my student loan debt, Relationships, starting a family, and how to retire before reaching old age ๐Ÿค”
* How to break down the systematic genocide against people of color.
On a typical Friday night I am
Glass of Chianti in bed catching up on shows on my DVR or Netflix binge.
At a bar in Philly with colleagues
The most private thing Iโ€™m willing to admit
It wouldn't be private if I told you, now would it? ๐Ÿค”
You should message me if
You are single, with one (at the most) or no children (but wants them, eventually), if you like chocolate :-) and you're in the tri state area. You have a fun personality and enjoy genuine good company without the diva If you don't mind a female that owns heels but prefers sneakers ๐Ÿ˜

I'm asked specifically what I'm looking for in a life partner often enough, so I'll plug a few things right here as well...
Someone with morals and values, believes in a higher power, can be spiritual without being religious. Family oriented, I'm big on fam. Someone who is socially conscious and awakened to society's foolery. Someone who provides balance who I can take to my holiday party and introduce to millionaires, but can also hop in the car and listen to me rap the entire reasonable doubt album on the way to the hood where there's a gallon of Henny and beautiful black folks awaiting our Diversity is a must. Someone who doesn't need to go out every weekend to feel free but who also has a life and friends outside of relationships. Affectionate and intimate but not insecure outside of my presence. Of course respect and surface based characteristics, but these things are also very important to me.
The two of us